Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Help please !!! bathing suit and beach issues !!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

well its 10:30 on spring break


and its 93 degrees !


everyone whos anyone is going to the beach today


and i was meeting up with two friends there


BUT im arriving with my dad and sister





my two friends MAY be going a couple hrs later than i am


so that means id be all alone with my sister and dad on the beach with a BUNCH of kids i know from school !!!!!





EMBARASSING





so thats one problem. the other is :





i have like a big big bust


and im reeeallllyyyyy thin. i have this bathing suit


and i guess it fits okay


but im just really uncomfortable about y body right now....


so i dont want people from school seeing me like that !!!





another :::


i dont take off my glasses


like everrr


they're like a part of me


and if i go swimming


then i'll have to take them off


for all the people in my school to see





EMBARASSING times three !!!!








i know this doesnt really sound like the biggest problem


but rightt now


to me


it is








PLEASE HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Help please !!! bathing suit and beach issues !!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
First of all, almost every teenager gets embarrassed by their family so they empathize when other teens show up with theirs. Secondly, whether you like it or not, almost everyone will notice your boobs. Most of the guys, and a lot of the girls, will stare, so be prepared. Most teenage boys are fascinated by and attracted to big boobs. A lot of girls are jealous or envious of big boobs. I'm telling you this because you might not be able to just blend in. As far as swimming, you don't necessarily have to swim, you can just wade out or play around in the water, and keep your glasses on. Once you get out there don't worry about being embarrassed, because you aren't going to be the only one feeling embarrassed. When you put lots of teenage girls in bathing suits most of them are embarrassed about one thing or another. Just go out, meet up with your friends, and have a good time.Help please !!! bathing suit and beach issues !!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
I am not sure how old you are but, it shouldn't be all that bad. try and stall the family by taking your time getting ready so that you can arrive around the same time your friends arrive. That is what my 15yr. old son does all the time. for your other issue, try putting on a swim cover up that you can wear in the water. Now for your third problem, have you ever consider getting contacts? I am sure your a very pretty girl and things will turn out just find. Have a fun and safe spring break.
You can wear a one piece suit and dark coloured t shirt over it if you go swimming. Don't worry about taking your glasses off if u want to go under water. You will look just as attractive with your glasses off. Kid's can be cruel. Try not to take it personnely. Good luck and have fun!

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