http://news.yahoo.com/nphotos/Muslim-Bur鈥?/a>Will this new bathing suit be the new style in California beaches?
It is far too revealing. I can see her hands and face. Stone her!!!!!!Will this new bathing suit be the new style in California beaches?
Eh.Mah.Gahh! YES! it is. Not only is it SUPER STYLISH, its great for tanning ! and staying cool when youre chillin by the waves :]
no
for Muslims yea
Saturday, March 13, 2010
Bridget's Sexiest Beaches; Bathing Suit!?
Hey if you have ever seen the show Bridget's Sexiest beaches on Travel Channel, on the Jamaica episode, does anyone know where you could buy the jamaican bikini she where'sBridget's Sexiest Beaches; Bathing Suit!?
not sure, but have a look here
http://WorldSwimwear.com
not sure, but have a look here
http://WorldSwimwear.com
Is it wrong for women to wear two piece bathing suits at beaches due to immodesty? Causing guys to stare, etc.?
So you saying the woman is responsible for the guy looking?
I’m Christian - God gave me eyes to look at the beauty He made, and a woman’s body is beautiful.
I could choose to turn my head, but like my wife says, “it doesn’t matter where I get my appetite as long as I eat at home”Is it wrong for women to wear two piece bathing suits at beaches due to immodesty? Causing guys to stare, etc.?
I wear a two piece bathing suit which covers up a signficant amount of my torso.
Besides, there are equally distracting one piece suits.
Guys should also learn to control their staring -are you implying that we should accept that guys are lusty animals and aren't expected to control themselves, but women should?Is it wrong for women to wear two piece bathing suits at beaches due to immodesty? Causing guys to stare, etc.?
They don't ';cause'; men to stare. Men are responsible for their own staring.
If you can't cope with the fact that women are shaped the way they are, and you can't stop thinking of sex when you see a woman's shape or skin, then the solution is not to make women cover up - they're not the ones with the problem. The solution is for you to grow the hell up and deal with reality.
For all you folks saying ';men can CHOOSE not to stare';. Do you know how hard that is? Sure, it's ultimately a choice, but it's a very hard one!
Perhaps the question should say ';Is it wrong for women to cause men to make tough decisions by simultaneously wearing sexy clothes AND not wanting to be stared at?';
Well, to be honest, the choice isn't hard for me. I just stare.
If you're a Christian male and you're staring then you should just pluck your eyes out as Jesus suggested.
';And if your eye causes you to sin, tear it out. It is better for you to enter the kingdom of God with one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into hell.';-Mark 9:47
Yes, I think it is. Women should not do anything to cause any sexual attractions to themselves. We are to be temples for Gods work and behave in a manner pleasing unto Him. We are not to do Satan's work and stir up all kinds of evil things.
What is wrong or immodest about a two piece bathing suit. Perhaps you are talking about a bikini? Guys staring is their own business and their thoughts are their own sins. Please wake up and step into the new millenium.
Men can choose to stare or not. They are in control of their own reactions. Women should be allowed to be as comfortable as men when swimming. Too many people make too big a deal out of nudity and so called immodesty.
Only women with emotional issues dislike feeling desired. The only other time they complain is when the guys are staring at someone else.
Maybe guys can learn to control their staring, if it's such a big deal.
edit: lol @ typical guy comments about being nude. You silly basement-dwellers.
Tops are shackles for the breasts. If men can go bare chested there is not reason women should not be able to as well.
What's wrong with two piece, some of them are a tank top type top with shorts...
Guys don't even wear the top, so..
Try going to a European beach in summer sometime.
Only if you look like an exploded can of pillsbury rolls.
Hey, there are bikinis and BIKINIS. Most sold around here are nice and decent, providing you buy your REAL size :)
How about zero piece bathing suits?
Do you care when you're oogling her?
Yes, the two pieces are distracting. Better off not wearing anything.
You want her to wear her birthday suit instead?
best to be totally natural
your right, they should just not wear anything at all
yes. They should remove them to avoid the problem
yes
Not at all. As a matter of fact, if I could get away with it, I'd lie out on the beach completely naked.
Men have to control their behaviors. A woman in a two-piece bathing suit is not naked. If they can't control themselves, they will pay the consequences. Men do not have the right to accost women against their will in this society.
I’m Christian - God gave me eyes to look at the beauty He made, and a woman’s body is beautiful.
I could choose to turn my head, but like my wife says, “it doesn’t matter where I get my appetite as long as I eat at home”Is it wrong for women to wear two piece bathing suits at beaches due to immodesty? Causing guys to stare, etc.?
I wear a two piece bathing suit which covers up a signficant amount of my torso.
Besides, there are equally distracting one piece suits.
Guys should also learn to control their staring -are you implying that we should accept that guys are lusty animals and aren't expected to control themselves, but women should?Is it wrong for women to wear two piece bathing suits at beaches due to immodesty? Causing guys to stare, etc.?
They don't ';cause'; men to stare. Men are responsible for their own staring.
If you can't cope with the fact that women are shaped the way they are, and you can't stop thinking of sex when you see a woman's shape or skin, then the solution is not to make women cover up - they're not the ones with the problem. The solution is for you to grow the hell up and deal with reality.
For all you folks saying ';men can CHOOSE not to stare';. Do you know how hard that is? Sure, it's ultimately a choice, but it's a very hard one!
Perhaps the question should say ';Is it wrong for women to cause men to make tough decisions by simultaneously wearing sexy clothes AND not wanting to be stared at?';
Well, to be honest, the choice isn't hard for me. I just stare.
If you're a Christian male and you're staring then you should just pluck your eyes out as Jesus suggested.
';And if your eye causes you to sin, tear it out. It is better for you to enter the kingdom of God with one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into hell.';-Mark 9:47
Yes, I think it is. Women should not do anything to cause any sexual attractions to themselves. We are to be temples for Gods work and behave in a manner pleasing unto Him. We are not to do Satan's work and stir up all kinds of evil things.
What is wrong or immodest about a two piece bathing suit. Perhaps you are talking about a bikini? Guys staring is their own business and their thoughts are their own sins. Please wake up and step into the new millenium.
Men can choose to stare or not. They are in control of their own reactions. Women should be allowed to be as comfortable as men when swimming. Too many people make too big a deal out of nudity and so called immodesty.
Only women with emotional issues dislike feeling desired. The only other time they complain is when the guys are staring at someone else.
Maybe guys can learn to control their staring, if it's such a big deal.
edit: lol @ typical guy comments about being nude. You silly basement-dwellers.
Tops are shackles for the breasts. If men can go bare chested there is not reason women should not be able to as well.
What's wrong with two piece, some of them are a tank top type top with shorts...
Guys don't even wear the top, so..
Try going to a European beach in summer sometime.
Only if you look like an exploded can of pillsbury rolls.
Hey, there are bikinis and BIKINIS. Most sold around here are nice and decent, providing you buy your REAL size :)
How about zero piece bathing suits?
Do you care when you're oogling her?
Yes, the two pieces are distracting. Better off not wearing anything.
You want her to wear her birthday suit instead?
best to be totally natural
your right, they should just not wear anything at all
yes. They should remove them to avoid the problem
yes
Not at all. As a matter of fact, if I could get away with it, I'd lie out on the beach completely naked.
Men have to control their behaviors. A woman in a two-piece bathing suit is not naked. If they can't control themselves, they will pay the consequences. Men do not have the right to accost women against their will in this society.
Where can i find info about how polutted are the bathing beaches in seas and oceans and lakes and rivers world
world wideWhere can i find info about how polutted are the bathing beaches in seas and oceans and lakes and rivers world
try atlas encyclopedia or wikipedia
try atlas encyclopedia or wikipedia
Thursday, March 11, 2010
I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Ok so this happend last summer but its so embbarrssing i just cant get it off my mind since summer is starting again.Last summer i was at the beach with my friend Sam,Cody,Nathan(nate the great haha),kylie,and Alex (hate the betch),and these girls were there and they were trying to talk to our guys and it was getting really annoyying so we like took the guys away from them and they got pissed and they had there guy friends there and there guy friends came over to talk to us and sam said my name and i turned around and the other guy pulled the string to my bathing suit off and of course ALL of my guy friends could probley see everything.(and those annoying girls were laughing there butts off) but my hair was pretty long but idk if it covered anything it was so embarrsing.EVER SINCE THAT DAY I HAVE NEVER GONE SWIMMING OR TO THE BEACH WITH MY GUY FRIENDS HOW DO I GET OVER THE EMBARRESSMENT!!!???I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
just laugh it off.
its just one of those ';wow! my life sucks!'; moments
but obviously the guys wont care.
and just go to beach with them this summer
it will be fine. its a whole new summer:)
but be prepared, they might say something or
crack a joke.
so think of something funny for a response:)
have fun at the beach!! :)
(with guys too!)I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
';Eternal vigilance is the price of freedom!'; Keep your ears and eyes open and don't let anyone do that again. I can certainly understand why you were offended!
Beyond that, you are a human and a woman and you've nothing to be ashamed of. Be proud and be you! The clowns will always be around so wink at the cute ones and ignore the foolish ones. Who knows, someday they might even grow up.
Why be embarrassed, was not your fault your bathing suit was ripped off. If your guy friends have not said anything to you about it, then you have nothing to worry about, so STOP.
Haha briana i wish i was there i still regret not going im SURE!!! that sam,cody,and nate thought it was a good sight
Wear a one piece bathing suit next time.
walk around naked in front of everyone and show them you dont care
just act like it never happened.
just forget about it
%26amp; see it as a memorie that u r goin to
look back later on and laugh your asss out
just laugh it off.
its just one of those ';wow! my life sucks!'; moments
but obviously the guys wont care.
and just go to beach with them this summer
it will be fine. its a whole new summer:)
but be prepared, they might say something or
crack a joke.
so think of something funny for a response:)
have fun at the beach!! :)
(with guys too!)I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
';Eternal vigilance is the price of freedom!'; Keep your ears and eyes open and don't let anyone do that again. I can certainly understand why you were offended!
Beyond that, you are a human and a woman and you've nothing to be ashamed of. Be proud and be you! The clowns will always be around so wink at the cute ones and ignore the foolish ones. Who knows, someday they might even grow up.
Why be embarrassed, was not your fault your bathing suit was ripped off. If your guy friends have not said anything to you about it, then you have nothing to worry about, so STOP.
Haha briana i wish i was there i still regret not going im SURE!!! that sam,cody,and nate thought it was a good sight
Wear a one piece bathing suit next time.
walk around naked in front of everyone and show them you dont care
just act like it never happened.
just forget about it
%26amp; see it as a memorie that u r goin to
look back later on and laugh your asss out
I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Ok so this happend last summer but its so embbarrssing i just cant get it off my mind since summer is starting again.Last summer i was at the beach with my friend Sam,Cody,Nathan(nate the great haha),kylie,and Alex (hate the betch),and these girls were there and they were trying to talk to our guys and it was getting really annoyying so we like took the guys away from them and they got pissed and they had there guy friends there and there guy friends came over to talk to us and sam said my name and i turned around and the other guy pulled the string to my bathing suit off and of course ALL of my guy friends could probley see everything.(and those annoying girls were laughing there butts off) but my hair was pretty long but idk if it covered anything it was so embarrsing.EVER SINCE THAT DAY I HAVE NEVER GONE SWIMMING OR TO THE BEACH WITH MY GUY FRIENDS HOW DO I GET OVER THE EMBARRESSMENT!!!???I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
get revenge... dack your guy frends!I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
They can be no longer your friends, if they have teased u like this. Please make new friends and those should know the meaning of friendship, but past is past don't feel embraced, they should feel embraced and not u, u have done no mistake and its all ur dirty friends (please don't call them any longer friends) keep them as hi and bye and not more. God Bless U
I do not believe that you were embarrassed for to long, you would have been revelling in the attention.
All this happened last summer 12 mths have passed are you still reminding them of what had happened.
Really just forget about it and wear swimmers without strings, unless you are still seeking attention.
haha i got pantsed full on and my ex gf was infront of me and saw everything she kinda hated me so said all this ****. well i never got over it but all i did was not thing what anyone else thought it was embarasing but i got over it, just try not to think about it
Have they ever mentioned it? If not then they don't care and probably wouldn't even think about....well they might but they wouldn't say anything so w/e
Pics or it didn't happen!
good for ya!
i wish i was there
don't worry about it. i doubt they care. just laugh it off
Everyone is seen nude by someone eventually and everyone knows what a nude body looks like so don't think it is all that special. It was only an unusual location. The only one that is embarrassed is you. The others enjoyed your exposure so be a good sport. No one will treat you differently unless you bring it up. Just act like it never happened and the whole ting will pass. Life is full of unusual experiences. What are you going to do when your child or someone walks in on you while you are having sex? Happens all the time.eye creams
Ok so this happend last summer but its so embbarrssing i just cant get it off my mind since summer is starting again.Last summer i was at the beach with my friend Sam,Cody,Nathan(nate the great haha),kylie,and Alex (hate the betch),and these girls were there and they were trying to talk to our guys and it was getting really annoyying so we like took the guys away from them and they got pissed and they had there guy friends there and there guy friends came over to talk to us and sam said my name and i turned around and the other guy pulled the string to my bathing suit off and of course ALL of my guy friends could probley see everything.(and those annoying girls were laughing there butts off) but my hair was pretty long but idk if it covered anything it was so embarrsing.EVER SINCE THAT DAY I HAVE NEVER GONE SWIMMING OR TO THE BEACH WITH MY GUY FRIENDS HOW DO I GET OVER THE EMBARRESSMENT!!!???I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
get revenge... dack your guy frends!I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
They can be no longer your friends, if they have teased u like this. Please make new friends and those should know the meaning of friendship, but past is past don't feel embraced, they should feel embraced and not u, u have done no mistake and its all ur dirty friends (please don't call them any longer friends) keep them as hi and bye and not more. God Bless U
I do not believe that you were embarrassed for to long, you would have been revelling in the attention.
All this happened last summer 12 mths have passed are you still reminding them of what had happened.
Really just forget about it and wear swimmers without strings, unless you are still seeking attention.
haha i got pantsed full on and my ex gf was infront of me and saw everything she kinda hated me so said all this ****. well i never got over it but all i did was not thing what anyone else thought it was embarasing but i got over it, just try not to think about it
Have they ever mentioned it? If not then they don't care and probably wouldn't even think about....well they might but they wouldn't say anything so w/e
Pics or it didn't happen!
good for ya!
i wish i was there
don't worry about it. i doubt they care. just laugh it off
Everyone is seen nude by someone eventually and everyone knows what a nude body looks like so don't think it is all that special. It was only an unusual location. The only one that is embarrassed is you. The others enjoyed your exposure so be a good sport. No one will treat you differently unless you bring it up. Just act like it never happened and the whole ting will pass. Life is full of unusual experiences. What are you going to do when your child or someone walks in on you while you are having sex? Happens all the time.
I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Ok so this happend last summer but its so embbarrssing i just cant get it off my mind since summer is starting again.Last summer i was at the beach with my friend Sam,Cody,Nathan(nate the great haha),kylie,and Alex (hate the betch),and these girls were there and they were trying to talk to our guys and it was getting really annoyying so we like took the guys away from them and they got pissed and they had there guy friends there and there guy friends came over to talk to us and sam said my name and i turned around and the other guy pulled the string to my bathing suit off and of course ALL of my guy friends could probley see everything.(and those annoying girls were laughing there butts off) but my hair was pretty long but idk if it covered anything it was so embarrsing.EVER SINCE THAT DAY I HAVE NEVER GONE SWIMMING OR TO THE BEACH WITH MY GUY FRIENDS HOW DO I GET OVER THE EMBARRESSMENT!!!???I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
LOL something like that happend to me once, but it wasnt as embarrising as your(or at least i think it's not). I was at Bass lake(in cali) with my friends, and my mom's and dad's friends. We took our boat out to go tubing(and wake boarding, skiing, etc). We have this flat tube that you lay down on your stomach. My dad waz driving the boat and the tube is a 2 person tube. The other person that waz on the tube with me waz a guy. So, my dad waz going really fast, and half my body waz hanging off the tube. Then, my bottom part of my bathing suit fell off!! I was still hanging on half nude. He looked over at me and noticed that i wasn't wearing any pants. So embarrasing. so i just let go of the tube and, told my dad i lost my pants. Every one waz laughing at me. I got back on the boat and put a towel around my butt. and now, im going back to the lake with him again.
ok back to ur story. I say, don't worry about it, guys are wrong and they will probably think it waz hot or some aqward thing.I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
you should have went up to the girls and hit them with your boobs and bee like ';WHAT NOW *****!' j/k that would be weird
The same thing happened to me 2 weeks ago and my guys friends don't care they just keep making joke about it like ';Yeahhh Marley so are you gonna give us a free show again or do we need to get out dollar bills out?';
Answer these questions for yourself.
1. Did it cause you pain?
2. Was there an injury?
3. Did you get sunburned?
4. Is your body malformed in a way no other human being is, and you need to keep it a secret?
The best thing to do is live like it never happened and enjoy life. You exposed parts that are not normally exposes. So What?
There are some things about our society, and what it teaches young people, that I will never understand.
Dont worry about it. If the dudes r ur real freinds theyll forgive the incident. Those girls r betches. Next time u go to the beach make a joke out of last summer and b like ';i think im gonna keep my shorts and tank on this time!'; Nobody can hate u for a mistake.
well th@ nver happened 2 me but i would never show my face in public evr again jk ok so people saw u naked so what ! dont let that stop u from living ur life
they probly think it was a good thing
LOL something like that happend to me once, but it wasnt as embarrising as your(or at least i think it's not). I was at Bass lake(in cali) with my friends, and my mom's and dad's friends. We took our boat out to go tubing(and wake boarding, skiing, etc). We have this flat tube that you lay down on your stomach. My dad waz driving the boat and the tube is a 2 person tube. The other person that waz on the tube with me waz a guy. So, my dad waz going really fast, and half my body waz hanging off the tube. Then, my bottom part of my bathing suit fell off!! I was still hanging on half nude. He looked over at me and noticed that i wasn't wearing any pants. So embarrasing. so i just let go of the tube and, told my dad i lost my pants. Every one waz laughing at me. I got back on the boat and put a towel around my butt. and now, im going back to the lake with him again.
ok back to ur story. I say, don't worry about it, guys are wrong and they will probably think it waz hot or some aqward thing.I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
you should have went up to the girls and hit them with your boobs and bee like ';WHAT NOW *****!' j/k that would be weird
The same thing happened to me 2 weeks ago and my guys friends don't care they just keep making joke about it like ';Yeahhh Marley so are you gonna give us a free show again or do we need to get out dollar bills out?';
Answer these questions for yourself.
1. Did it cause you pain?
2. Was there an injury?
3. Did you get sunburned?
4. Is your body malformed in a way no other human being is, and you need to keep it a secret?
The best thing to do is live like it never happened and enjoy life. You exposed parts that are not normally exposes. So What?
There are some things about our society, and what it teaches young people, that I will never understand.
Dont worry about it. If the dudes r ur real freinds theyll forgive the incident. Those girls r betches. Next time u go to the beach make a joke out of last summer and b like ';i think im gonna keep my shorts and tank on this time!'; Nobody can hate u for a mistake.
well th@ nver happened 2 me but i would never show my face in public evr again jk ok so people saw u naked so what ! dont let that stop u from living ur life
they probly think it was a good thing
Why we see children happily playing nude at the beach, why are we so quick to shove bathing suits on them and-
rush them into lives of restriction, false shame, repressed lives? Must Americans suffer forever because the country was founded by religious bigots who fled from saner countries?Why we see children happily playing nude at the beach, why are we so quick to shove bathing suits on them and-
Children, in their innocence, are not embarrassed at all by their nudity. It's the adults who are uncomfortable with it and therefore can't tolerate nudity in babies beyond 12 months old or thereabouts. I'm not convinced that it's a religious thing at all, since France is a very religious country and also much more free with nudity than the US.Why we see children happily playing nude at the beach, why are we so quick to shove bathing suits on them and-
I hated nudity when I was a child. I begged my mom to buy me a bath suit
are you serious. Maybe the reason I would not let me child run around nude on a beach are because of people could hurt my child- your type of question makes me wonder.............................
You know, I would have no problem with my kids being nude or semi-nude at the beach/pool. However, I suit them up as protection from two things.
1. the sun. Both of my parents and 2 of my grandparents have had skin cancer. We cover up and slather up as much as possible.
2. There are so many perverts out there. My kids may be innocent, and they might like being naked, and equate to nothing more than freedom. However, there may be others around that think of other things when they see naked children. It's a sick world and it's my job to protect my kids.
Yah brotha! Everyone burn your swimsuits - those antiquated tools of oppression!
I have to worry about pedophiles enough as it is, thank you.
WooHoo, lets all get naked and frolic.
I agree with you. In the biblical creation, God made Adam and Eve naked. When they ate the forbidden fruit, they became ashamed of their bodies. They made leaves to cover their parts, God was angry at that. We shouldn't teach children to be ashamed of their bodies. Some are offended at nudity but is what our bodies look like.
'Cause we are not into pedophilia or nudity.
BECAUSE I DON'T WANT SOME PERVERT LOOKING AT MY CHILD AS A SEX OBJECT! ARE YOU SERIOUS???
go to france or greece there are many nude beaches
Americans may be prudish in some ways, but at least they don't consider female genital mutilation a solution to erotic urges.
Unfortunately...
try taking your kids to the nudist beach! fun fun fun
pervert
Children, in their innocence, are not embarrassed at all by their nudity. It's the adults who are uncomfortable with it and therefore can't tolerate nudity in babies beyond 12 months old or thereabouts. I'm not convinced that it's a religious thing at all, since France is a very religious country and also much more free with nudity than the US.Why we see children happily playing nude at the beach, why are we so quick to shove bathing suits on them and-
I hated nudity when I was a child. I begged my mom to buy me a bath suit
are you serious. Maybe the reason I would not let me child run around nude on a beach are because of people could hurt my child- your type of question makes me wonder.............................
You know, I would have no problem with my kids being nude or semi-nude at the beach/pool. However, I suit them up as protection from two things.
1. the sun. Both of my parents and 2 of my grandparents have had skin cancer. We cover up and slather up as much as possible.
2. There are so many perverts out there. My kids may be innocent, and they might like being naked, and equate to nothing more than freedom. However, there may be others around that think of other things when they see naked children. It's a sick world and it's my job to protect my kids.
Yah brotha! Everyone burn your swimsuits - those antiquated tools of oppression!
I have to worry about pedophiles enough as it is, thank you.
WooHoo, lets all get naked and frolic.
I agree with you. In the biblical creation, God made Adam and Eve naked. When they ate the forbidden fruit, they became ashamed of their bodies. They made leaves to cover their parts, God was angry at that. We shouldn't teach children to be ashamed of their bodies. Some are offended at nudity but is what our bodies look like.
'Cause we are not into pedophilia or nudity.
BECAUSE I DON'T WANT SOME PERVERT LOOKING AT MY CHILD AS A SEX OBJECT! ARE YOU SERIOUS???
go to france or greece there are many nude beaches
Americans may be prudish in some ways, but at least they don't consider female genital mutilation a solution to erotic urges.
Unfortunately...
try taking your kids to the nudist beach! fun fun fun
pervert
Why we see children happily playing nude at the beach, why are we so quick to shove bathing suits on them and-
rush them into lives of restriction, false shame, repressed lives? Must Americans suffer forever because the country was founded by religious bigots who fled from saner countries?Why we see children happily playing nude at the beach, why are we so quick to shove bathing suits on them and-
Because our society is quick to shove children into their neat little places in life. We put our girls in pink dresses and we tell our boys they'll be an athlete. We force onto them what society expects of them with no regards to the fact that they are children and they don't understand nor do they want any of it. Let children be children.
***Thumbs downers. You all aren't ready for me. You want simple answers that don't make your brain have to go tick.Why we see children happily playing nude at the beach, why are we so quick to shove bathing suits on them and-
they might not attack your children right in front of you, but they can think bad thoughts about them and worse, TAKE PICTURES of your kids. Obviously you are not a parent, buddy
I know that you would like to believe that we live in La-La Land. but sadly, we do not. there is such a thing called pedophilia and that makes the need for our children to have bathing suits. Besides, whats wrong with instilling in your child a sense of modesty and decency. Remember, some things NEED to be restricted. Otherwise there would be utter chaos.
This is all the Christian Gods fault...
they put bathing suits on them because of perverts. It is necessary
We put clothes on them to keep predators at bay. Sadly there are too many sick people out there and so we must protect our children. What does wearing clothing have anything at all to do with repression or religious bigots?
its so that we can start to show them the importance of being self-concious,
Interesting. It seems you are addressing your own suffering rather than that of any playing children.
Many of the people who ';founded'; the United States left Europe because they were not allowed to practice their faith without oppression. If they happened to have visited the seashore before going across the Atlantic (not counting the time they showed up with all their sacks and trunks to get on the ship), they and their children were probably much more covered, because it was cold.
Because our society is quick to shove children into their neat little places in life. We put our girls in pink dresses and we tell our boys they'll be an athlete. We force onto them what society expects of them with no regards to the fact that they are children and they don't understand nor do they want any of it. Let children be children.
***Thumbs downers. You all aren't ready for me. You want simple answers that don't make your brain have to go tick.Why we see children happily playing nude at the beach, why are we so quick to shove bathing suits on them and-
they might not attack your children right in front of you, but they can think bad thoughts about them and worse, TAKE PICTURES of your kids. Obviously you are not a parent, buddy
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I know that you would like to believe that we live in La-La Land. but sadly, we do not. there is such a thing called pedophilia and that makes the need for our children to have bathing suits. Besides, whats wrong with instilling in your child a sense of modesty and decency. Remember, some things NEED to be restricted. Otherwise there would be utter chaos.
This is all the Christian Gods fault...
they put bathing suits on them because of perverts. It is necessary
We put clothes on them to keep predators at bay. Sadly there are too many sick people out there and so we must protect our children. What does wearing clothing have anything at all to do with repression or religious bigots?
its so that we can start to show them the importance of being self-concious,
Interesting. It seems you are addressing your own suffering rather than that of any playing children.
Many of the people who ';founded'; the United States left Europe because they were not allowed to practice their faith without oppression. If they happened to have visited the seashore before going across the Atlantic (not counting the time they showed up with all their sacks and trunks to get on the ship), they and their children were probably much more covered, because it was cold.
Girls- Do you wear skimpy bathing suits to the beaches to show off?
Hope you dont get mad when I look. =OGirls- Do you wear skimpy bathing suits to the beaches to show off?
nope.Girls- Do you wear skimpy bathing suits to the beaches to show off?
There's a new troll in town
and I'm looking good
Got a smile got a song
for the neighborhood
There's a new troll in town
and I'm fee-linG GOOD!
and if things work out she's gonna stay
a while
boo doo de dop bop de do daaaaaaaay.
No I don't wear skimpy suits to show off =-PP
However I do wear revealing outfits when I hit the clubs
and no, you can look all you want...just don't touch if you're ugly, other than that we have no problems =-))
They Probally Do
But I'm Happy
When I was teen yes I had a rocken body and if you got it fluant it,I still have an awsome body but know not at all because I have kids and I need to make a good influence.
;o Not lately!
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No, because I don't have enough self-esteem. Also, if girls get mad when guys look at them they shouldn't have worn a skimpy bathing suit.
no. i dont. i dont like my body, so, i dont like skipmy bathing suits either.
nope, I don't go to beaches, I am to busy fighting for my country in the military like I want to
I could but I do not like creepy people ogling me
i have nothing to show off, lmao.
sometimes, depends if im in the mood or not. :)
guys should start doing that too
no because I like to be comfortable when I am on the beach.
Of course. What else am I supposed to wear to the beach?
no. people would scream ';WHALE ON THE BEACH';
Nah.. just swimming trunks
no cuz when i swim it might completley fall off. O_O
xDD
eh. It's a bikini; does that countt?
haha. naah, i like it when sexy clowns look at me
:P
lmao....no...but I can't help it if others think I'm hot ;)
nope.Girls- Do you wear skimpy bathing suits to the beaches to show off?
There's a new troll in town
and I'm looking good
Got a smile got a song
for the neighborhood
There's a new troll in town
and I'm fee-linG GOOD!
and if things work out she's gonna stay
a while
boo doo de dop bop de do daaaaaaaay.
No I don't wear skimpy suits to show off =-PP
However I do wear revealing outfits when I hit the clubs
and no, you can look all you want...just don't touch if you're ugly, other than that we have no problems =-))
They Probally Do
But I'm Happy
When I was teen yes I had a rocken body and if you got it fluant it,I still have an awsome body but know not at all because I have kids and I need to make a good influence.
;o Not lately!
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No, because I don't have enough self-esteem. Also, if girls get mad when guys look at them they shouldn't have worn a skimpy bathing suit.
no. i dont. i dont like my body, so, i dont like skipmy bathing suits either.
nope, I don't go to beaches, I am to busy fighting for my country in the military like I want to
I could but I do not like creepy people ogling me
i have nothing to show off, lmao.
sometimes, depends if im in the mood or not. :)
guys should start doing that too
no because I like to be comfortable when I am on the beach.
Of course. What else am I supposed to wear to the beach?
no. people would scream ';WHALE ON THE BEACH';
Nah.. just swimming trunks
no cuz when i swim it might completley fall off. O_O
xDD
eh. It's a bikini; does that countt?
haha. naah, i like it when sexy clowns look at me
:P
lmao....no...but I can't help it if others think I'm hot ;)
To American men : Which bathing suit(swimwear) do you prefer to wear on beaches or at any pool ?
?To American men : Which bathing suit(swimwear) do you prefer to wear on beaches or at any pool ?
the long surf ';board'; shorts are popular
the speedo nut huggers are for the wanna bes and guys that like guysTo American men : Which bathing suit(swimwear) do you prefer to wear on beaches or at any pool ?
Budgie Smugglers ??
naked
lol my wife said none... lol...
None, best kind of beach!
My underware. That way it gets washed free of charge.
the long surf ';board'; shorts are popular
the speedo nut huggers are for the wanna bes and guys that like guysTo American men : Which bathing suit(swimwear) do you prefer to wear on beaches or at any pool ?
Budgie Smugglers ??
naked
lol my wife said none... lol...
None, best kind of beach!
My underware. That way it gets washed free of charge.
Do u go to the beach for the ocean or do u just go to check out all the people in their bathing suits??
if i lived by the beach..i would go for the hot bodies, tanning, and ice cream.Do u go to the beach for the ocean or do u just go to check out all the people in their bathing suits??
both.Do u go to the beach for the ocean or do u just go to check out all the people in their bathing suits??
i love the ocean!!! whether there are people there or not
I go for the sun to get a great tan.
To look at the Hard Bodies and to let the twins get a little sun too
I go first thing in the morning: for the peacefulness, sound of the waves, feeling of the water and sand on my feet.
That scenery is worth more than any woman/man in a bathing suit.
I am a people watcher....some people need to be inside if you know what I mean.
ocean and beach first reason, booty second reason!!
i don't go to the beach
Ocean
I go mostly for the ocean, but checking out the girls in bathing suits is not only fun, its inevitable.
to relax and have a nice time and tan :)
a little of both!
I love the ocean scenery
definitely to check out the women
I go for both once I am finish playing in the water . i would sit back and watch all those sexy a$$ strong guys walk pass my dripping wet and the inprint of there you know what .
My husband goes to look at all the girls.
I go to keep an eye on our 17 month old son.
He can't really watch the baby if his eyes are glued to the hot blond.
A little of both!
The ocean, I love the water and I would prefer a beach without many people on it.
for the water
I only go to nude beaches for the last 30 odd years.
Still not done looking?
I never pay any attention to who ever.
P.Dragon.
As a matter of fact I am here right now, I go for the Ocean only. Oh sh*t, hold on I will be back, check out that chest and a** on that dude. Ooops. As I was saying I come only for the Ocean. Talk to you later, I am going to ride the guy, I mean the waves.
I love the salty taste of a freshly ocean dipped woman!!!!
oh yeah...and Sally selling seashells at the seashore......!!
Yeah. I live in a major beach tourist destination, which makes it extra interesting. Especially if you bring along a girlfriend and some cocktails. You can insult or compliment folks (to each other, of course) all day long.
I don't know what the beach situation is like wherever you are, but here in Australia we are in the midst of an obesity epidemic and any place where people are wearing less clothing than normal is NOT somewhere that you want to be.
The only fit people at Australian beaches are the sleazy wogs who are there for a 'perv', so do yourself a favour and if it's a hot day, just run around under your garden sprinkler.
both AND we went topless to a secluded beach and caught a bunch of guys standing on the cliff....w/binoculars-i just laughed it off..thats what we get!
I go because I LIVE AT THE BEACH, well 1 block away, there are lots of reasons, sometimes at night just to hear the waves, go to shop, to tan, to check out the hot bodies, to play frisbee, to swim, to talk to my friends.eye creams
both.Do u go to the beach for the ocean or do u just go to check out all the people in their bathing suits??
i love the ocean!!! whether there are people there or not
I go for the sun to get a great tan.
To look at the Hard Bodies and to let the twins get a little sun too
I go first thing in the morning: for the peacefulness, sound of the waves, feeling of the water and sand on my feet.
That scenery is worth more than any woman/man in a bathing suit.
I am a people watcher....some people need to be inside if you know what I mean.
ocean and beach first reason, booty second reason!!
i don't go to the beach
Ocean
I go mostly for the ocean, but checking out the girls in bathing suits is not only fun, its inevitable.
to relax and have a nice time and tan :)
a little of both!
I love the ocean scenery
definitely to check out the women
I go for both once I am finish playing in the water . i would sit back and watch all those sexy a$$ strong guys walk pass my dripping wet and the inprint of there you know what .
My husband goes to look at all the girls.
I go to keep an eye on our 17 month old son.
He can't really watch the baby if his eyes are glued to the hot blond.
A little of both!
The ocean, I love the water and I would prefer a beach without many people on it.
for the water
I only go to nude beaches for the last 30 odd years.
Still not done looking?
I never pay any attention to who ever.
P.Dragon.
As a matter of fact I am here right now, I go for the Ocean only. Oh sh*t, hold on I will be back, check out that chest and a** on that dude. Ooops. As I was saying I come only for the Ocean. Talk to you later, I am going to ride the guy, I mean the waves.
I love the salty taste of a freshly ocean dipped woman!!!!
oh yeah...and Sally selling seashells at the seashore......!!
Yeah. I live in a major beach tourist destination, which makes it extra interesting. Especially if you bring along a girlfriend and some cocktails. You can insult or compliment folks (to each other, of course) all day long.
I don't know what the beach situation is like wherever you are, but here in Australia we are in the midst of an obesity epidemic and any place where people are wearing less clothing than normal is NOT somewhere that you want to be.
The only fit people at Australian beaches are the sleazy wogs who are there for a 'perv', so do yourself a favour and if it's a hot day, just run around under your garden sprinkler.
both AND we went topless to a secluded beach and caught a bunch of guys standing on the cliff....w/binoculars-i just laughed it off..thats what we get!
I go because I LIVE AT THE BEACH, well 1 block away, there are lots of reasons, sometimes at night just to hear the waves, go to shop, to tan, to check out the hot bodies, to play frisbee, to swim, to talk to my friends.
Where can i find info about how polluted are the bathing beaches in seas and oceans and lakes and rivers world
world wide.
thanksWhere can i find info about how polluted are the bathing beaches in seas and oceans and lakes and rivers world
Greenpeace website possibly thank you
thanksWhere can i find info about how polluted are the bathing beaches in seas and oceans and lakes and rivers world
Greenpeace website possibly thank you
I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Ok so this happend last summer but its so embbarrssing i just cant get it off my mind since summer is starting again.Last summer i was at the beach with my friend Sam,Cody,Nathan(nate the great haha),kylie,and Alex (hate the betch),and these girls were there and they were trying to talk to our guys and it was getting really annoyying so we like took the guys away from them and they got pissed and they had there guy friends there and there guy friends came over to talk to us and sam said my name and i turned around and the other guy pulled the string to my bathing suit off and of course ALL of my guy friends could probley see everything.(and those annoying girls were laughing there butts off) but my hair was pretty long but idk if it covered anything it was so embarrsing.EVER SINCE THAT DAY I HAVE NEVER GONE SWIMMING OR TO THE BEACH WITH MY GUY FRIENDS HOW DO I GET OVER THE EMBARRESSMENT!!!???I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Oh that must have been really embarrassing!!
But don't stress! That was last year and you probably won't run into those girls again. I'm sure your guy friends forgot about that time anyway, and if they haven't then I doubt they'll bring it up. If they're real friends they won't bring it up and if they do then just laugh it off or say, ';So what? That was last year.'; Maybe you should wear the swim suits with a top that has ties at the neck-like a halter top, maybe that will help you feel better. Or when you wear the top that ties in the middle of your back, wear a cover up over it when you're not in the water.
But the best way to get over the embarrassment is to just remind yourself that it was last year and its in the past now, its all over. Try and forget about it-we all have embarrassing moments. Its not the end of the world. If you wanna go to the beach or swimming with your friends then do it and don't think about last year. Its okay, just think whatever and move on. :)
Hope I helped!!!I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Dont worrie about it and never bring it up cuz they probly dont remember and if they do its no big deal like really if they are your friends then they will understand
Oh that must have been really embarrassing!!
But don't stress! That was last year and you probably won't run into those girls again. I'm sure your guy friends forgot about that time anyway, and if they haven't then I doubt they'll bring it up. If they're real friends they won't bring it up and if they do then just laugh it off or say, ';So what? That was last year.'; Maybe you should wear the swim suits with a top that has ties at the neck-like a halter top, maybe that will help you feel better. Or when you wear the top that ties in the middle of your back, wear a cover up over it when you're not in the water.
But the best way to get over the embarrassment is to just remind yourself that it was last year and its in the past now, its all over. Try and forget about it-we all have embarrassing moments. Its not the end of the world. If you wanna go to the beach or swimming with your friends then do it and don't think about last year. Its okay, just think whatever and move on. :)
Hope I helped!!!I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Dont worrie about it and never bring it up cuz they probly dont remember and if they do its no big deal like really if they are your friends then they will understand
Why we see children happily playing nude at the beach, why are we so quick to shove bathing suits on them and-
rush them into lives of restriction, false shame, repressed lives? Must Americans suffer forever because the country was founded by religious bigots who fled from saner countries?Why we see children happily playing nude at the beach, why are we so quick to shove bathing suits on them and-
We need not suffer forever. There are Nudist organizations that encourage Body Acceptance and create recreational opportunities for people who want to be free of clothes. They're available for anyone who is interested.Why we see children happily playing nude at the beach, why are we so quick to shove bathing suits on them and-
because otherwise child molesters and perverts would have a field day.
Too many predators would be attracted. Plus, parents are supposed to teach children how to act in society. It is 'normal' here to wear a swimsuit to swim or play on the beach. To teach freedom, have a private back yard for nudity, it is not accepted in public. In our state, there is one naturist (nudist) colony that people bring children to. They are family oriented and also have security to protect people plus a system of reporting. That keeps the children safe. On a public beach, I just think it would be too dangerous. My opinion!
Live well and do good.
Did you actually just ask why we don't let our kids play naked on public beaches?
Um... cause of perverts like you
also.... American2006 = Reported
your statements are very correct.
because not everyone wants to look at some little kid naked unlike some people. you perhaps?
Dateline predator series called, they want you to have a seat.
1. It can be offensive to other people trying to enjoy a day at the beach.
2. As already mentioned, perverts and child molesters would have a field day.
I don't think this is a religious issue at all. If your so upset that kids can't run around naked on the beach, maybe you should think about moving to one of those ';saner countries'; you were talking about.
Why don't you have a seat over there...
- Chris Hansen
Dateline NBC
We need not suffer forever. There are Nudist organizations that encourage Body Acceptance and create recreational opportunities for people who want to be free of clothes. They're available for anyone who is interested.Why we see children happily playing nude at the beach, why are we so quick to shove bathing suits on them and-
because otherwise child molesters and perverts would have a field day.
Too many predators would be attracted. Plus, parents are supposed to teach children how to act in society. It is 'normal' here to wear a swimsuit to swim or play on the beach. To teach freedom, have a private back yard for nudity, it is not accepted in public. In our state, there is one naturist (nudist) colony that people bring children to. They are family oriented and also have security to protect people plus a system of reporting. That keeps the children safe. On a public beach, I just think it would be too dangerous. My opinion!
Live well and do good.
Did you actually just ask why we don't let our kids play naked on public beaches?
Um... cause of perverts like you
also.... American2006 = Reported
your statements are very correct.
because not everyone wants to look at some little kid naked unlike some people. you perhaps?
Dateline predator series called, they want you to have a seat.
1. It can be offensive to other people trying to enjoy a day at the beach.
2. As already mentioned, perverts and child molesters would have a field day.
I don't think this is a religious issue at all. If your so upset that kids can't run around naked on the beach, maybe you should think about moving to one of those ';saner countries'; you were talking about.
Why don't you have a seat over there...
- Chris Hansen
Dateline NBC
I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Ok so this happend last summer but its so embbarrssing i just cant get it off my mind since summer is starting again.Last summer i was at the beach with my friend Sam,Cody,Nathan(nate the great haha),kylie,and Alex (hate the betch),and these girls were there and they were trying to talk to our guys and it was getting really annoyying so we like took the guys away from them and they got pissed and they had there guy friends there and there guy friends came over to talk to us and sam said my name and i turned around and the other guy pulled the string to my bathing suit off and of course ALL of my guy friends could probley see everything.(and those annoying girls were laughing there butts off) but my hair was pretty long but idk if it covered anything it was so embarrsing.EVER SINCE THAT DAY I HAVE NEVER GONE SWIMMING OR TO THE BEACH WITH MY GUY FRIENDS HOW DO I GET OVER THE EMBARRESSMENT!!!???I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Lot of girls yearn for such an opportunity to show off! You got one so celebrate! Don't brood.I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
i think its just one of those things i wudnt be embaressed! i bet they never complained i wud jus laff along with it. like u sed it was last summer i wud just look forward to this summer and forget about it.
just laugh it off, wear a different bathing suit
invest in one which is elastic and doesn't have any strings which they can undoo. xx
If it were me I would just beat the crap out of them. That would never happen to me since I wear a swimsuit and boxers when I go swimming.
Just laugh a long with it, i bet the guys thought your body was hot. Be privileged. Atleast they know what to expect when you deliver sexual favours
well im pretty sure they enjoyed it ne way so maybe you should just stop bein a whore and get over it.
That is sooo immature. Accept that they have not grown up yet, playing stupid pranks like that. Bunch of idiots.
find a seculuded place and go skinny dipping no fear
big deal! learn to show some *** time and again! it wont kill ya!
Lot of girls yearn for such an opportunity to show off! You got one so celebrate! Don't brood.I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
i think its just one of those things i wudnt be embaressed! i bet they never complained i wud jus laff along with it. like u sed it was last summer i wud just look forward to this summer and forget about it.
just laugh it off, wear a different bathing suit
invest in one which is elastic and doesn't have any strings which they can undoo. xx
If it were me I would just beat the crap out of them. That would never happen to me since I wear a swimsuit and boxers when I go swimming.
Just laugh a long with it, i bet the guys thought your body was hot. Be privileged. Atleast they know what to expect when you deliver sexual favours
well im pretty sure they enjoyed it ne way so maybe you should just stop bein a whore and get over it.
That is sooo immature. Accept that they have not grown up yet, playing stupid pranks like that. Bunch of idiots.
find a seculuded place and go skinny dipping no fear
big deal! learn to show some *** time and again! it wont kill ya!
I feel really uncomfortable in a bathing suit, will i get made fun of at the beach? *PICS*?
I feel so fat, im NOT doing this for attention, i just want to know whether or not i should go to the beach, because i dont want people to stare. I dont know how accurate my perception of myself is, so i need your help.
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A♥aI feel really uncomfortable in a bathing suit, will i get made fun of at the beach? *PICS*?
there are tons of other ppl at the beach wearing swimsuits...
i don't think you'll be made fun of, but if you feel insecure, you could wear a swimsuit with a skirt or something... do what feels right to you :D
also go with some close friends, that way, if you do get made fun of, they will back u up :DI feel really uncomfortable in a bathing suit, will i get made fun of at the beach? *PICS*?
wow ok so when i went to look at your pics i thought for sure you were going to have some kind of body problem, but maybe you should be worried about if you are stuck up or self absorbed rather than being fat becuase honey let me tell you for those of us who actually have bellies that cover up, that actually do worry about what people like you are going to say because if you call yourself fat then i bet if you saw me youd think i was a whale even though i know i am not. take a good look in the mirror. you are not fat and even if you were love what you have and embrace it. worry about you and not what that boy or tha tgirl is going to say or think because i promise you when you get older you won't care then
no its ok, people wont make fun of u. Im alot skinnier than u but thats ok becuase some people are just ment to be fat...and there are some people who are alot fatter than you. The only fat part on u is ur stomach and ur fine everywhere else and i would just start doing a few crunches in teh morning like 5 reps of 10
It kinda sounds like you are gong this for attention. Not to be rude but if ur self conscience about yourself in a bathing suit why did you post pictures of yourself on the computer where everyone can see them? Your not fat. And if people star then let them, they're obviously jealous.
string bikinis will make your boobs look bigger, or those kind that wrap around and are strapless. you arent fat, your a good healthy weight. and at the beach i go to, no one really stares at anyone unless they are hot and sexy, other than that, no one cares.
wtf, i was expecting some fat, or ugly girl!!!! thanks for making me feel worse about myself.....=/
Go on to the beach let other jealouse people stare and the fat people dream of having a body like yours!!!**dreams**
talk about bikini body!!!!
you do not look fat
you are nto fat at all
im even jealous
you could go out there to the beach liek that haha
but yeah you look nice go out there and show it off
just in a nicer design of bathing suit its kinda weird
You look fine. Go to the beach. Also I don't like ur bathing suit very much you should wear a different one that makes u look really pretty.
No, u don't look fat at all. You should maybe get a different bathing suit, but other than that u look great! I would look horrible in a bikini so u r rly luckyy!
xoxo
You're fine.
No one really cares anyways.
People go to the beach to have fun.
Are you blind? Well, next time you're at the beach, open up your eyes.
You are not fat, if anything you could do with GAINING a few pounds. You look great stop worrying.
people don't stare at people at the beach unless they think they're hot.
You look good, you aint got nothing to worry about ;)
get a more flattering swimsuit, like boyshorts
OH PUH LEESE!
you are fine
u r so nawt fat!
and is your last name egan?
if so HI ava its jamie!
if not
never mind!
omg sweetie! ur soo no where near fat
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A♥aI feel really uncomfortable in a bathing suit, will i get made fun of at the beach? *PICS*?
there are tons of other ppl at the beach wearing swimsuits...
i don't think you'll be made fun of, but if you feel insecure, you could wear a swimsuit with a skirt or something... do what feels right to you :D
also go with some close friends, that way, if you do get made fun of, they will back u up :DI feel really uncomfortable in a bathing suit, will i get made fun of at the beach? *PICS*?
wow ok so when i went to look at your pics i thought for sure you were going to have some kind of body problem, but maybe you should be worried about if you are stuck up or self absorbed rather than being fat becuase honey let me tell you for those of us who actually have bellies that cover up, that actually do worry about what people like you are going to say because if you call yourself fat then i bet if you saw me youd think i was a whale even though i know i am not. take a good look in the mirror. you are not fat and even if you were love what you have and embrace it. worry about you and not what that boy or tha tgirl is going to say or think because i promise you when you get older you won't care then
no its ok, people wont make fun of u. Im alot skinnier than u but thats ok becuase some people are just ment to be fat...and there are some people who are alot fatter than you. The only fat part on u is ur stomach and ur fine everywhere else and i would just start doing a few crunches in teh morning like 5 reps of 10
It kinda sounds like you are gong this for attention. Not to be rude but if ur self conscience about yourself in a bathing suit why did you post pictures of yourself on the computer where everyone can see them? Your not fat. And if people star then let them, they're obviously jealous.
string bikinis will make your boobs look bigger, or those kind that wrap around and are strapless. you arent fat, your a good healthy weight. and at the beach i go to, no one really stares at anyone unless they are hot and sexy, other than that, no one cares.
wtf, i was expecting some fat, or ugly girl!!!! thanks for making me feel worse about myself.....=/
Go on to the beach let other jealouse people stare and the fat people dream of having a body like yours!!!**dreams**
talk about bikini body!!!!
you do not look fat
you are nto fat at all
im even jealous
you could go out there to the beach liek that haha
but yeah you look nice go out there and show it off
just in a nicer design of bathing suit its kinda weird
You look fine. Go to the beach. Also I don't like ur bathing suit very much you should wear a different one that makes u look really pretty.
No, u don't look fat at all. You should maybe get a different bathing suit, but other than that u look great! I would look horrible in a bikini so u r rly luckyy!
xoxo
You're fine.
No one really cares anyways.
People go to the beach to have fun.
Are you blind? Well, next time you're at the beach, open up your eyes.
You are not fat, if anything you could do with GAINING a few pounds. You look great stop worrying.
people don't stare at people at the beach unless they think they're hot.
You look good, you aint got nothing to worry about ;)
get a more flattering swimsuit, like boyshorts
OH PUH LEESE!
you are fine
u r so nawt fat!
and is your last name egan?
if so HI ava its jamie!
if not
never mind!
omg sweetie! ur soo no where near fat
Where can i find info about how polutted are the bathing beaches in seas and oceans and lakes and rivers world
world wideWhere can i find info about how polutted are the bathing beaches in seas and oceans and lakes and rivers world
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Everything everywhere is polluted. We call it ';life:'; anabolism, metabolism, catabolism.
We went to the beach and my friend took off her wet bathing suit in front of her boyfriend and my boyfriend.?
Her boyfriend won't call her any more and i won't speak to her any more.
That was bad wasn't it?We went to the beach and my friend took off her wet bathing suit in front of her boyfriend and my boyfriend.?
Ok, so you nor her boyfriend are speaking to her anymore, right? Is your boyfriend speaking to her? I'd suspect that is what she was after anyway. She had to know you and her boyfriend would be upset.We went to the beach and my friend took off her wet bathing suit in front of her boyfriend and my boyfriend.?
This is where America's weird puritanical values drives me nuts. It is ok to see all sorts of violence, but let someone be naked and it's an unforgivable crime.
Obviously, she was comfortable enough in the company of friends and her boyfriend that she thought nothing of taking off the bathing suit and drying off. No sense of unnecessary modesty there.
In most countries, nudity is not a taboo and is considered natural.
Maybe she should have thought about how you felt before she did it, but like I said, she obviously felt comfortable enough that she didn't think it would be an issue. She was wrong. maybe she will find friends and a new boyfriend that aren't so prudish in the future.
I think you are overreacting. maybe she doesn't think it is a big deal to change in front of friends. she could just be very open. guys and girls change in front of each other all the time. I have seen girls change, and my gf has seen guys change. it wasn't like ';omg you were just naked in front of me hehehehehehe';. so as far as that goes it is perfectly acceptable to be naked in front of your friends if you are changing. most people can't handle that i guess
Whether or not you all are in bathing suits dosen't matter, your still at least half nude. You wouldn't be wearing a swim suit or bikinni out in the city on the side walk now would you?
Those who think seeing each other in the nude are no better than animals - they probably believe we were once animals, therefore we should feel no problem in going back to our ';animal instincts';. This is a bunch of crap.
Keep your thighs covered up to your torso. This is for men and women. Except for husband and wife who can see everything else, and in privacy.
What she did wasn't proper, but I think you committed the more condemnable offense by not speaking to her because of it. Did she punch you in the face or sleep with your bf? No, she just got naked in front of you.
The only advice I'd give is to her: Good riddance..she doesn't need friends like you anyway.
Her boyfriend is also a grade-A fruit.
I can completely understand you being upset. The last thing you want your boyfriend to see is your friend w/o her bathing suit!
I am curious as to why your boyfriend got upset? I can't see any reason why he would care except that he's into her...or if you were upset and then that upset him?
I would talk to your friend and explain why you were upset and ask her blatantly why she did it and if she has feelings for your boyfriend. If she says no, then if you are good friends, trust her and ask her not to do it again. If her answer is sketchy or you don't believe her- then you don't need a friend like that. Your friends should respect the privacy of your relationship and should understand that us ';stuffy Americans'; don't appreciate when girls flaunt their bodies in front of our men!
Just my opinion.
To you this might seem unusual, but it might be perfectly normal to your friend. I know its a little different, but compare it to having someone at your house and them observing your behavior. Some of the things you do might be odd for them. If you do get in touch with her, make sure she understands that you'd prefer if she didn't, but don't make a big deal.
Why are you not talking to her? Maybe in her culture (or only in her own mind) there was nothing wrong with it, maybe in her home it's perfectly acceptable to be nude in front of others. It's a shame it affected everyone else so badly.
Obviously she has boundary issues or wants attention, didn't someone have a beach towel?
I've known people like that and unfortunately they were not ones you even wanted to see naked
she has issues, you did not over react
WTF?! There wasn't a changing room? That was totally disrespectful of your friend. I wouldn't have talked to her afterwards either. What a sl*t!
only in america would this even be an issue. americans are so stuffy about nudity.
Gads.....is she an idiot? You're better off without that kinda thing.
Some people have no modesty or common sense. What was she thinking?
Wow! Is she hot?
That was bad wasn't it?We went to the beach and my friend took off her wet bathing suit in front of her boyfriend and my boyfriend.?
Ok, so you nor her boyfriend are speaking to her anymore, right? Is your boyfriend speaking to her? I'd suspect that is what she was after anyway. She had to know you and her boyfriend would be upset.We went to the beach and my friend took off her wet bathing suit in front of her boyfriend and my boyfriend.?
This is where America's weird puritanical values drives me nuts. It is ok to see all sorts of violence, but let someone be naked and it's an unforgivable crime.
Obviously, she was comfortable enough in the company of friends and her boyfriend that she thought nothing of taking off the bathing suit and drying off. No sense of unnecessary modesty there.
In most countries, nudity is not a taboo and is considered natural.
Maybe she should have thought about how you felt before she did it, but like I said, she obviously felt comfortable enough that she didn't think it would be an issue. She was wrong. maybe she will find friends and a new boyfriend that aren't so prudish in the future.
I think you are overreacting. maybe she doesn't think it is a big deal to change in front of friends. she could just be very open. guys and girls change in front of each other all the time. I have seen girls change, and my gf has seen guys change. it wasn't like ';omg you were just naked in front of me hehehehehehe';. so as far as that goes it is perfectly acceptable to be naked in front of your friends if you are changing. most people can't handle that i guess
Whether or not you all are in bathing suits dosen't matter, your still at least half nude. You wouldn't be wearing a swim suit or bikinni out in the city on the side walk now would you?
Those who think seeing each other in the nude are no better than animals - they probably believe we were once animals, therefore we should feel no problem in going back to our ';animal instincts';. This is a bunch of crap.
Keep your thighs covered up to your torso. This is for men and women. Except for husband and wife who can see everything else, and in privacy.
What she did wasn't proper, but I think you committed the more condemnable offense by not speaking to her because of it. Did she punch you in the face or sleep with your bf? No, she just got naked in front of you.
The only advice I'd give is to her: Good riddance..she doesn't need friends like you anyway.
Her boyfriend is also a grade-A fruit.
I can completely understand you being upset. The last thing you want your boyfriend to see is your friend w/o her bathing suit!
I am curious as to why your boyfriend got upset? I can't see any reason why he would care except that he's into her...or if you were upset and then that upset him?
I would talk to your friend and explain why you were upset and ask her blatantly why she did it and if she has feelings for your boyfriend. If she says no, then if you are good friends, trust her and ask her not to do it again. If her answer is sketchy or you don't believe her- then you don't need a friend like that. Your friends should respect the privacy of your relationship and should understand that us ';stuffy Americans'; don't appreciate when girls flaunt their bodies in front of our men!
Just my opinion.
To you this might seem unusual, but it might be perfectly normal to your friend. I know its a little different, but compare it to having someone at your house and them observing your behavior. Some of the things you do might be odd for them. If you do get in touch with her, make sure she understands that you'd prefer if she didn't, but don't make a big deal.
Why are you not talking to her? Maybe in her culture (or only in her own mind) there was nothing wrong with it, maybe in her home it's perfectly acceptable to be nude in front of others. It's a shame it affected everyone else so badly.
Obviously she has boundary issues or wants attention, didn't someone have a beach towel?
I've known people like that and unfortunately they were not ones you even wanted to see naked
she has issues, you did not over react
WTF?! There wasn't a changing room? That was totally disrespectful of your friend. I wouldn't have talked to her afterwards either. What a sl*t!
only in america would this even be an issue. americans are so stuffy about nudity.
Gads.....is she an idiot? You're better off without that kinda thing.
Some people have no modesty or common sense. What was she thinking?
Wow! Is she hot?
Im soon gonna go to the beach nd i need help buying a bathing suit that has boy shorts.?
its time for me to buy a new bathing suit and im sick and tired of the same old one peices. So im trying to find a two peice that has boy shorts. Im not fat but im not like a size 0 skinny so i just like boy shorts better for some reason . I've looked allL over and for some reason i cant find a affordable 2 peice that has boy shorts. and its drivinq me crazy because i have been looking all weekend. please help :)Im soon gonna go to the beach nd i need help buying a bathing suit that has boy shorts.?
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I love tankinis. They seem to be the trend for this summer!
Try Ardene's, or any like teen girls store.
Most have mix and match pieces, and some offer one top and the choice of two bottoms, usually shorts and just the regular one. I got mine at Ardene's, and it's adorable and affordable.
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I love tankinis. They seem to be the trend for this summer!
Try Ardene's, or any like teen girls store.
Most have mix and match pieces, and some offer one top and the choice of two bottoms, usually shorts and just the regular one. I got mine at Ardene's, and it's adorable and affordable.
Why do you need boy shorts? You should get a very tiny bikini that really shows off your body.
try going to some online stores because they have eveything online
or try typing bathing suit with boy shorts in google
good luck
Guys describe me the most sexy bathing suit that you have seen on a girl on the beach.?
girls can answer too if they really liked some bathing suit on some other girl.Guys describe me the most sexy bathing suit that you have seen on a girl on the beach.?
White on a tanned bodGuys describe me the most sexy bathing suit that you have seen on a girl on the beach.?
nothing....
I've been to a topless beach.
U r a little too young to be asking this kind of a question. Wait... maybe that's why ur interested in bathing suits and not about the ones that wear it.
i saw a naked girl does that count? she was steamin
I went to a beach in the South of France and the girl was no older than 18 (if that) and had no top on , and the bottom part of a non existent bathing suit was no bigger than half a regular napkin. Why she even bothered to wear it is beyond me.
Birthday suit
It was awesome, ... it was, it was ....
darn I do not remember much of the suit, can I describe the girl instead? I do have a very good recollection of her
Well the best is none at all. I think that is pretty sexy.
yellow polka-dotted bikini
You don't want me to be able to get any work done today, do you?
EDIT - I'll be honest with you. We aren't looking at the bathing suit. We're looking at what's going on around it.
White on a tanned bodGuys describe me the most sexy bathing suit that you have seen on a girl on the beach.?
nothing....
I've been to a topless beach.
U r a little too young to be asking this kind of a question. Wait... maybe that's why ur interested in bathing suits and not about the ones that wear it.
i saw a naked girl does that count? she was steamin
I went to a beach in the South of France and the girl was no older than 18 (if that) and had no top on , and the bottom part of a non existent bathing suit was no bigger than half a regular napkin. Why she even bothered to wear it is beyond me.
Birthday suit
It was awesome, ... it was, it was ....
darn I do not remember much of the suit, can I describe the girl instead? I do have a very good recollection of her
Well the best is none at all. I think that is pretty sexy.
yellow polka-dotted bikini
You don't want me to be able to get any work done today, do you?
EDIT - I'll be honest with you. We aren't looking at the bathing suit. We're looking at what's going on around it.
Bathing suits.. don't you ever wish you could just wear underwear to the beach?
its cheaperBathing suits.. don't you ever wish you could just wear underwear to the beach?
ye, n much more comfortable!Bathing suits.. don't you ever wish you could just wear underwear to the beach?
YES! its basically the same thing! and my underwears are so pretty :(
nope
no i dont
No I want to wear a cute bathing suit!!
Ha, no.
Underwear is..underwear. Meant to be worn under clothes. And I wear a tankini so it's not really the same for me. I try to be modest. Almost all the guys I hang out with think that a girl showing off everything she has and being a slut is a huge turnoff. Keep in mind, these guys aren't weird nerd kids. They are perfectly normal high school boys that happen to have morals--which is part of why I hang out with them. =)
It's a different material..
But I suppose other than that it's basically the same.
Unless you're like me and wear a tankini. I'm skinny, I'm just modest.
I wouldn't feel comfortable in just my underwear..ha
lol
u wish
no not really..
UNderwear would be terrible if you got it wet or sandy, so NO! Plus, bathing suits are cuter and there are more covering swimsuits too in case you don't want to wear a bikini
yes i do and with the right kind you can barely tell the difference between the two
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i no!!!!
its the exact same thing!!!!
My mom does but they totally look like a bathing suit bottom!!!!!!!!! You wouldnt even be able to tell. They arent thongs and yeah they are awsome!!!! and my mom doesnt go in the ocean.
i saw some chick wearing just underwear at the beach.....and it was sooo hot...mmmmmmm
umm no?
they may look kinda the same, but thier different material.
people wear swim suits to the beach because thier made for water.
l agree..It would be cheaper
ye, n much more comfortable!Bathing suits.. don't you ever wish you could just wear underwear to the beach?
YES! its basically the same thing! and my underwears are so pretty :(
nope
no i dont
No I want to wear a cute bathing suit!!
Ha, no.
Underwear is..underwear. Meant to be worn under clothes. And I wear a tankini so it's not really the same for me. I try to be modest. Almost all the guys I hang out with think that a girl showing off everything she has and being a slut is a huge turnoff. Keep in mind, these guys aren't weird nerd kids. They are perfectly normal high school boys that happen to have morals--which is part of why I hang out with them. =)
It's a different material..
But I suppose other than that it's basically the same.
Unless you're like me and wear a tankini. I'm skinny, I'm just modest.
I wouldn't feel comfortable in just my underwear..ha
lol
u wish
no not really..
UNderwear would be terrible if you got it wet or sandy, so NO! Plus, bathing suits are cuter and there are more covering swimsuits too in case you don't want to wear a bikini
yes i do and with the right kind you can barely tell the difference between the two
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i no!!!!
its the exact same thing!!!!
My mom does but they totally look like a bathing suit bottom!!!!!!!!! You wouldnt even be able to tell. They arent thongs and yeah they are awsome!!!! and my mom doesnt go in the ocean.
i saw some chick wearing just underwear at the beach.....and it was sooo hot...mmmmmmm
umm no?
they may look kinda the same, but thier different material.
people wear swim suits to the beach because thier made for water.
l agree..It would be cheaper
You are at the beach and want to go for a swim but don't have your bathing suit, what do you do?
Let's assume you're wearing what you're wearing now.You are at the beach and want to go for a swim but don't have your bathing suit, what do you do?
I go and get my friend and take her skinny dipping in the moonlight.You are at the beach and want to go for a swim but don't have your bathing suit, what do you do?
if around there is a lot of child (to avoid shocks!lol) i go with my boxer on
(then I'll keep off the boxer after the swim and i'll remain without underwear)
if there is no children, i prolly go nude
what about u?
take everything off except for my under garments and swim in them. then afterwards i can just sit out in the sun to get them to dry so i can put my clothes back on ;)
i dont think i could skinny dip in public and get away with it
I have never had a problem sunbathing topless, I'd jump in with thongs only.. Only the police have a problem with that.
Swim in my underwear or just buy another bikini
underwear or, if I felt courageous, I'd skinny dip.
I'm wearing pants, long sleeve shirt, a jacket, shoes and socks...I don't think I want to go swimming anymore.
Nothing!
If i had glue, i could glue something to wear from sand
as you get older taking a skinny dip becomes more of a chunk dunk :)
a whipped cream bikini should suffice
go commando
I love to skinny dip, so what the hell. Let's party.
I never leave my house without my banana hammock on
i would go nude!
im sure the ladies wont mind. =]
Find a secluded spot and go au naturale. Sounds like and I think alike.
ONE time i took a swim with my jeans!
In my birthday suit
only if all people on the beach are girls, I can go swim naked.
mug someone
go naked
I've got underpants on today so I'd wear those.
And that water is a little cold now...
Oh wait let me get my socks off...
Nude
id just go in as i was far too cold for me to even want to think about that though
Buy a lot of sunblock.
in my bra and knickers
i'd go nakey.
Ok, I won't look if you don't
*peeks between my fingers*
I'd free willy and go for a swim
I go and get my friend and take her skinny dipping in the moonlight.You are at the beach and want to go for a swim but don't have your bathing suit, what do you do?
if around there is a lot of child (to avoid shocks!lol) i go with my boxer on
(then I'll keep off the boxer after the swim and i'll remain without underwear)
if there is no children, i prolly go nude
what about u?
take everything off except for my under garments and swim in them. then afterwards i can just sit out in the sun to get them to dry so i can put my clothes back on ;)
i dont think i could skinny dip in public and get away with it
I have never had a problem sunbathing topless, I'd jump in with thongs only.. Only the police have a problem with that.
Swim in my underwear or just buy another bikini
underwear or, if I felt courageous, I'd skinny dip.
I'm wearing pants, long sleeve shirt, a jacket, shoes and socks...I don't think I want to go swimming anymore.
Nothing!
If i had glue, i could glue something to wear from sand
as you get older taking a skinny dip becomes more of a chunk dunk :)
a whipped cream bikini should suffice
go commando
I love to skinny dip, so what the hell. Let's party.
I never leave my house without my banana hammock on
i would go nude!
im sure the ladies wont mind. =]
Find a secluded spot and go au naturale. Sounds like and I think alike.
ONE time i took a swim with my jeans!
In my birthday suit
only if all people on the beach are girls, I can go swim naked.
mug someone
go naked
I've got underpants on today so I'd wear those.
And that water is a little cold now...
Oh wait let me get my socks off...
Nude
id just go in as i was far too cold for me to even want to think about that though
Buy a lot of sunblock.
in my bra and knickers
i'd go nakey.
Ok, I won't look if you don't
*peeks between my fingers*
I'd free willy and go for a swim
Going to the beach tomorrow with my friend, don't have ANY bathing suits?
All of mine from last year were so small, I thew them all out. I can't go out and get one because my mom said we have no money whatsoever. My friend is rich, and I don't want her to think I'm poor by not having a bathing suit. Suggestions and help please. Thanks to all :) By the way, I'm mad stressed.Going to the beach tomorrow with my friend, don't have ANY bathing suits?
just tell her that u dont really feel up to swimming... then just wear a cute little top and some shorts or a skirt instead! Do u have a halter top maybe that you could use?Going to the beach tomorrow with my friend, don't have ANY bathing suits?
Stop being so proud and ask your friend if she has an extra bathing suit. Good Luck!eye creams
just tell her that u dont really feel up to swimming... then just wear a cute little top and some shorts or a skirt instead! Do u have a halter top maybe that you could use?Going to the beach tomorrow with my friend, don't have ANY bathing suits?
Stop being so proud and ask your friend if she has an extra bathing suit. Good Luck!
I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Ok so this happend last summer but its so embbarrssing i just cant get it off my mind since summer is starting again.Last summer i was at the beach with my friend Sam,Cody,Nathan(nate the great haha),kylie,and Alex (hate the betch),and these girls were there and they were trying to talk to our guys and it was getting really annoyying so we like took the guys away from them and they got pissed and they had there guy friends there and there guy friends came over to talk to us and sam said my name and i turned around and the other guy pulled the string to my bathing suit off and of course ALL of my guy friends could probley see everything.(and those annoying girls were laughing there butts off) but my hair was pretty long but idk if it covered anything it was so embarrsing.EVER SINCE THAT DAY I HAVE NEVER GONE SWIMMING OR TO THE BEACH WITH MY GUY FRIENDS HOW DO I GET OVER THE EMBARRESSMENT!!!???I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
i dont know
next time just call me and ill take you girl friends clothes off for you and ofcoarse myself
hahahaI got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
so what they saw your ****, all my friends that are girls have seen my penis.. no big deal, ill let you see it to if ya want. What I'm tryin to say is, it's really not big deal the only person still thinking about it is yourself. Guys like **** anyways, big or small **** are **** and guys think its hot.
Just aknowledge it and laugh it off.
Next time you are at the beach - or whenever it comes up - just laugh and say something like ';next time it's going to cost you, no more freebies';. ha, ha.
Go to the beach and have a good summer.
1st buy a bathing suit that doesnt tie in the back. That'll give you a little more confidence of it not falling off.
2nd. Try and forget about it. If you remember it, dont spaz out, just think of something else and put it out of your mind.
3rd. Dont worry! If they're your friends, they'll be nice enough not to remind you of that embarrassing moment!
and last, If they start laughing about it, or some of those girls start talking about it to get a rise out of you, just laugh with them. Make little jokes like ';Those guys needed therapy after that happened'; or something like that. Hope I helped!
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
i dont know
next time just call me and ill take you girl friends clothes off for you and ofcoarse myself
hahahaI got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
so what they saw your ****, all my friends that are girls have seen my penis.. no big deal, ill let you see it to if ya want. What I'm tryin to say is, it's really not big deal the only person still thinking about it is yourself. Guys like **** anyways, big or small **** are **** and guys think its hot.
Just aknowledge it and laugh it off.
Next time you are at the beach - or whenever it comes up - just laugh and say something like ';next time it's going to cost you, no more freebies';. ha, ha.
Go to the beach and have a good summer.
1st buy a bathing suit that doesnt tie in the back. That'll give you a little more confidence of it not falling off.
2nd. Try and forget about it. If you remember it, dont spaz out, just think of something else and put it out of your mind.
3rd. Dont worry! If they're your friends, they'll be nice enough not to remind you of that embarrassing moment!
and last, If they start laughing about it, or some of those girls start talking about it to get a rise out of you, just laugh with them. Make little jokes like ';Those guys needed therapy after that happened'; or something like that. Hope I helped!
I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Ok so this happend last summer but its so embbarrssing i just cant get it off my mind since summer is starting again.Last summer i was at the beach with my friend Sam,Cody,Nathan(nate the great haha),kylie,and Alex (hate the betch),and these girls were there and they were trying to talk to our guys and it was getting really annoyying so we like took the guys away from them and they got pissed and they had there guy friends there and there guy friends came over to talk to us and sam said my name and i turned around and the other guy pulled the string to my bathing suit off and of course ALL of my guy friends could probley see everything.(and those annoying girls were laughing there butts off) but my hair was pretty long but idk if it covered anything it was so embarrsing.EVER SINCE THAT DAY I HAVE NEVER GONE SWIMMING OR TO THE BEACH WITH MY GUY FRIENDS HOW DO I GET OVER THE EMBARRESSMENT!!!???I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
forget the past,
screw the guys,
live in the present,
and if someone brings it up again just say ';oh yeah'; and no moreI got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
It is not you who should be embarrassed, it should have been the guys who did something so lame and stupid. The girls should have come to your assistance and have given the guys a piece of their mind. Suspect you would have done that if the roles were reversed. Refuse to go anywhere with Sam or any of the guy who pulled the string to your bathing suit. I'd even tell them why you refuse to do anything with them anymore. Do not keep the stupid, juvenile antics of a few from keeping you from wearing a swim suit or going to the beach. You have no reason to be embarrassed. The guys should be embarrassed big time.
Damn i would have f****d those girls up!! Anyway unless ur guy friends keep annoying you about it, you shouldnt be embarrased the human body is a beautiful thing!! If your guyfriends dont trip over it than you shudnt either...[:
forget the past,
screw the guys,
live in the present,
and if someone brings it up again just say ';oh yeah'; and no moreI got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
It is not you who should be embarrassed, it should have been the guys who did something so lame and stupid. The girls should have come to your assistance and have given the guys a piece of their mind. Suspect you would have done that if the roles were reversed. Refuse to go anywhere with Sam or any of the guy who pulled the string to your bathing suit. I'd even tell them why you refuse to do anything with them anymore. Do not keep the stupid, juvenile antics of a few from keeping you from wearing a swim suit or going to the beach. You have no reason to be embarrassed. The guys should be embarrassed big time.
Damn i would have f****d those girls up!! Anyway unless ur guy friends keep annoying you about it, you shouldnt be embarrased the human body is a beautiful thing!! If your guyfriends dont trip over it than you shudnt either...[:
Going to the beach or pool...what kind and color and pattern of bathing suit do you wear?where did you get it?
A 1 pc swimming costume, Persian Rose pink.
I forget where..JC maybe.Going to the beach or pool...what kind and color and pattern of bathing suit do you wear?where did you get it?
i don't even own togs anymore!
i just wear boardies and a little black self-support singlet. :)
the boardies i found at rockmans and the singlet from myers :)
very ';sexy'; lolGoing to the beach or pool...what kind and color and pattern of bathing suit do you wear?where did you get it?
it would be great to wear something with color.. bright colors would be really nice.. about pattern i really lyk zigzag or stripes or maybe polcadots.. :)
Pool,got a black sexy one piece suit at TJMaxx.And you?
plain navy blue or black. at mervyns
I have a pool...depends on how dark u r...bright colors look good ...my fav is red........
I forget where..JC maybe.Going to the beach or pool...what kind and color and pattern of bathing suit do you wear?where did you get it?
i don't even own togs anymore!
i just wear boardies and a little black self-support singlet. :)
the boardies i found at rockmans and the singlet from myers :)
very ';sexy'; lolGoing to the beach or pool...what kind and color and pattern of bathing suit do you wear?where did you get it?
it would be great to wear something with color.. bright colors would be really nice.. about pattern i really lyk zigzag or stripes or maybe polcadots.. :)
Pool,got a black sexy one piece suit at TJMaxx.And you?
plain navy blue or black. at mervyns
I have a pool...depends on how dark u r...bright colors look good ...my fav is red........
I want to go to the pool,or beach,but I find wearing a bathing suit embarrasing?
Boys have it so easy,they just wear swimming trunks.
Anyway,I haven't been to the beach,or pool,since I was seven or eight. I'm thirteen now.
But,I'm more..Socially awkward then I used to be,I have social anxiety disorder now.
I find wearing a swimsuit embarrasing. I don't like bikini's,or two pieces,I've never liked them. I haven't worn one since I was an infant. So,I'd rather wear a one piece.
But,I still find it embarrasing.
How do I get over this?I want to go to the pool,or beach,but I find wearing a bathing suit embarrasing?
It's normal to feel that way about a bathing suit. It's like you are walking around in your underwear. If you aren't comfortable then buy a one piece and wear some girl swim shorts over it so it looks like a tank top and shorts.I want to go to the pool,or beach,but I find wearing a bathing suit embarrasing?
Try wearing a monokini from Victoria secret like this :
http://www.victoriassecret.com/commerce/…
http://www.victoriassecret.com/commerce/…
http://www.victoriassecret.com/commerce/…
http://www.victoriassecret.com/commerce/…
it's totally okay to feel embarassed about wearing a two piece, I was scared to wear one at 12, and I am still scared so now I just wear monokinis to the beach.
xoxoxo
mwaz
lotta luvvies
Hailey
Hypnosis can help a lot - I work professionally as a hypnotist and this time of year get a lot of teen clients with the same worries. If you have some time, drop me a line on yahoo messenger (jasmith001) and I can give you a few tips to try and help.
Don't worry! I HATED swimsuits too.
Just buy some boardshorts and a rashguard!
Its just like shorts and a top!
They're fairly inexpensive and you'll look like a little surfer chick :]
Good Luck!!!!
don't worrie about what others think, maby try a one piece and board shorts or just wear shorts and a tank top
Well, do you think your out of shape?
If you do, then just start getting in shape - when you see yourself looking better, you might want to go and show a little skin..
Also, focus on having fun then how you look.
Do you know over 87% of people at the beach/pool are worrying about how they look? Nobody is looking at you unless you are a huge whale.
Everyone is focusing on hiding and trying to look good.
So instead of wrapping your arms around yourself or something like that, forget about it - you draw more attention when your are shy and embarrassed.
So even if you are embarrassed, just hide it - focus on having fun - and eventually you'll forget all about it.
Try going and getting a really cute bathing suit, you will want to wear it if you think its really cute. Also, you could wear some waterproof makeup - to make you feel really pretty. That will boost your self-esteem and make you strut your stuff.
Plus, your 13 - that means you probably havent hit fullcore puberty yet - so you most likely havent developed full curves.
You have nothing to be freaked out about.
Anyway,I haven't been to the beach,or pool,since I was seven or eight. I'm thirteen now.
But,I'm more..Socially awkward then I used to be,I have social anxiety disorder now.
I find wearing a swimsuit embarrasing. I don't like bikini's,or two pieces,I've never liked them. I haven't worn one since I was an infant. So,I'd rather wear a one piece.
But,I still find it embarrasing.
How do I get over this?I want to go to the pool,or beach,but I find wearing a bathing suit embarrasing?
It's normal to feel that way about a bathing suit. It's like you are walking around in your underwear. If you aren't comfortable then buy a one piece and wear some girl swim shorts over it so it looks like a tank top and shorts.I want to go to the pool,or beach,but I find wearing a bathing suit embarrasing?
Try wearing a monokini from Victoria secret like this :
http://www.victoriassecret.com/commerce/…
http://www.victoriassecret.com/commerce/…
http://www.victoriassecret.com/commerce/…
http://www.victoriassecret.com/commerce/…
it's totally okay to feel embarassed about wearing a two piece, I was scared to wear one at 12, and I am still scared so now I just wear monokinis to the beach.
xoxoxo
mwaz
lotta luvvies
Hailey
Hypnosis can help a lot - I work professionally as a hypnotist and this time of year get a lot of teen clients with the same worries. If you have some time, drop me a line on yahoo messenger (jasmith001) and I can give you a few tips to try and help.
Don't worry! I HATED swimsuits too.
Just buy some boardshorts and a rashguard!
Its just like shorts and a top!
They're fairly inexpensive and you'll look like a little surfer chick :]
Good Luck!!!!
don't worrie about what others think, maby try a one piece and board shorts or just wear shorts and a tank top
Well, do you think your out of shape?
If you do, then just start getting in shape - when you see yourself looking better, you might want to go and show a little skin..
Also, focus on having fun then how you look.
Do you know over 87% of people at the beach/pool are worrying about how they look? Nobody is looking at you unless you are a huge whale.
Everyone is focusing on hiding and trying to look good.
So instead of wrapping your arms around yourself or something like that, forget about it - you draw more attention when your are shy and embarrassed.
So even if you are embarrassed, just hide it - focus on having fun - and eventually you'll forget all about it.
Try going and getting a really cute bathing suit, you will want to wear it if you think its really cute. Also, you could wear some waterproof makeup - to make you feel really pretty. That will boost your self-esteem and make you strut your stuff.
Plus, your 13 - that means you probably havent hit fullcore puberty yet - so you most likely havent developed full curves.
You have nothing to be freaked out about.
How skimpy of a bathing suit can you wear on South Beach, FL?
Ok, I know South Beach the beach is topless but I was looking online and just purchased a bathing suit (wickedweasel.com, swimsuit model 457). I purchased a g-string bikini which I believe will be ok on the beach. However the front of the bikini bottom that actually has material on it is very skimpy it is a V-shaped in the front and only 2 1/2 inches wide to cover the kitty cat down there. I have never worn a bikini out on a beach as skimpy in the front like this one. By the way I do plan to go topless with this swimsuit bottom (and no I am not fat, I am atheletic and thin. Will this bikini bottom be legal to wear on South Beach? And will I be the only woman on the beach wearing an extremely small bikini bottom, I dont want to be alone? Thanks a bunch.How skimpy of a bathing suit can you wear on South Beach, FL?
go ahead and wear it! i live in Miami! you see ALL kind of things at the beach! trust me you will not be alone! plus if you have a killer body WHY NOT! show what you have!How skimpy of a bathing suit can you wear on South Beach, FL?
About anything goes at south beach, never heard of anyone having trouble. The only time I ever heard people talk was over a guy wearing a very small pouch style thong that left nothing to the imagination, still no one bothered him. Go ahead and have fun.
You can wear whatever you want on South Beach. As long as it covers the bottom front.
Please post pictures and we'll let you know how skimpy you can go.
It should be fine, just make sure you're properly waxed down there!
Why is your avatar a guy's face?
go ahead and wear it! i live in Miami! you see ALL kind of things at the beach! trust me you will not be alone! plus if you have a killer body WHY NOT! show what you have!How skimpy of a bathing suit can you wear on South Beach, FL?
About anything goes at south beach, never heard of anyone having trouble. The only time I ever heard people talk was over a guy wearing a very small pouch style thong that left nothing to the imagination, still no one bothered him. Go ahead and have fun.
You can wear whatever you want on South Beach. As long as it covers the bottom front.
Please post pictures and we'll let you know how skimpy you can go.
It should be fine, just make sure you're properly waxed down there!
Why is your avatar a guy's face?
My breats are very lopsided...i'm going to the beach soon...how do i wear a bathing suit??
my daughter has one breast that is twice the size of the other. she recently bought a swimsuit and managed to find one with just enough padding in the top that it evened out the look. Just keep trying on different styles until you find one that seems to balance you out. good luck!My breats are very lopsided...i'm going to the beach soon...how do i wear a bathing suit??
I tell my dtr (13) they will even out %26amp; hope its true.Info I found says its fairly common for left to be bigger than right but if a big difference cosmetic surgery can fix problem after girl has fully matured.Until then I guess just find the right bra and use padding.Anybody else have more advice?
My breats are very lopsided...i'm going to the beach soon...how do i wear a bathing suit??
I wish I knew more about this, too. If anybody else has some words of wisdom for us, that would be great!
It is probably not that they are lop sided all breasts are different sides but if they that bad use different size paddin to adjust them into your bathing suit.
Topless! Of course!
don't you'll be a hit
try a really tight suit so they are pushed back and look the same size. or just keep a shirt on the whole time.
u could wear a one piece with suport
LET ME TAKE A LOOK
tie a rope around the saggy one...
wear one that has lots of padding in it. or just wear a tanktop if you're not comfortable enough in a bathing suit.
They need a good handler to get them back to proper shape and proportion. Did I mention I am a handler? ;-) You see , you have to watch one doesn't get too much attention leaving the other sweet thing slightly neglected. I share all my affection equally .
You should opt for a bandeau style top, and add a little extra padding to the smaller one. You can buy thin lining cups at swimsuit stores that can be pinned or sewn into your suit. They look very natural.
I tell my dtr (13) they will even out %26amp; hope its true.Info I found says its fairly common for left to be bigger than right but if a big difference cosmetic surgery can fix problem after girl has fully matured.Until then I guess just find the right bra and use padding.Anybody else have more advice?
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My breats are very lopsided...i'm going to the beach soon...how do i wear a bathing suit??
I wish I knew more about this, too. If anybody else has some words of wisdom for us, that would be great!
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It is probably not that they are lop sided all breasts are different sides but if they that bad use different size paddin to adjust them into your bathing suit.
Topless! Of course!
don't you'll be a hit
try a really tight suit so they are pushed back and look the same size. or just keep a shirt on the whole time.
u could wear a one piece with suport
LET ME TAKE A LOOK
tie a rope around the saggy one...
wear one that has lots of padding in it. or just wear a tanktop if you're not comfortable enough in a bathing suit.
They need a good handler to get them back to proper shape and proportion. Did I mention I am a handler? ;-) You see , you have to watch one doesn't get too much attention leaving the other sweet thing slightly neglected. I share all my affection equally .
You should opt for a bandeau style top, and add a little extra padding to the smaller one. You can buy thin lining cups at swimsuit stores that can be pinned or sewn into your suit. They look very natural.
GUYS: If you went to the beach with a guy friend & he insisted on wearing a woman's bathing suit, would you..?
a. prefer he wear a bikini to show off his shapely body?..
b. prefer he wear a one-piece to cover up his belly?..
c. hold his hand as you walked together ankle deep in the waves?..GUYS: If you went to the beach with a guy friend %26amp; he insisted on wearing a woman's bathing suit, would you..?
A) If he has a hot bod, he needs to show that s*it offGUYS: If you went to the beach with a guy friend %26amp; he insisted on wearing a woman's bathing suit, would you..?
I'm not a guy but IF I were I wouldn't be going to the beach with another guy. I'd be going with my mom and the McDonald's drive thru lady and the lady who gives me free samples at the store.
They would help me to have respect for the dolphins and the fish and the waves and the salt. And maybe the monkeys, but only if we went to the zoo too.
I'd really like to see some monkeys, pent up monkeys and suffering monkeys. I would give them cookies and then they'd know how much I care.
A. If you knew my friends and their behavior you would come to find this as nothing new.
c definitely
A.
I could actually see some of my friends doing that.
d.) kill him and hide his body in the dunes
I'm gonna say A%26amp;C if I was a guy......
b. prefer he wear a one-piece to cover up his belly?..
c. hold his hand as you walked together ankle deep in the waves?..GUYS: If you went to the beach with a guy friend %26amp; he insisted on wearing a woman's bathing suit, would you..?
A) If he has a hot bod, he needs to show that s*it offGUYS: If you went to the beach with a guy friend %26amp; he insisted on wearing a woman's bathing suit, would you..?
I'm not a guy but IF I were I wouldn't be going to the beach with another guy. I'd be going with my mom and the McDonald's drive thru lady and the lady who gives me free samples at the store.
They would help me to have respect for the dolphins and the fish and the waves and the salt. And maybe the monkeys, but only if we went to the zoo too.
I'd really like to see some monkeys, pent up monkeys and suffering monkeys. I would give them cookies and then they'd know how much I care.
A. If you knew my friends and their behavior you would come to find this as nothing new.
c definitely
A.
I could actually see some of my friends doing that.
d.) kill him and hide his body in the dunes
I'm gonna say A%26amp;C if I was a guy......
My fiancee gets upset because I won't let her wear a two piece bathing suit at the pool and beach.?
This whole thing goes in cycles, I tell her not to wear one then she asks why and then I tell her, she 'sulks' and then things are quiet for a while until we go to the pool the next time or she sees a bathing suit in an ad or something that she likes. I just think its too immodest and that she is my girl and I don't want other guys staring at her. She needs to respect my decision and if I change it I will let her know and she needs to just stop bringing the issue up. I just feel if she brings it up again I'm going to yell at her next time. What should I do when she will?... and I know she will bring it up againMy fiancee gets upset because I won't let her wear a two piece bathing suit at the pool and beach.?
You won't let her? LOL That is funny. How many thing does she not LET you do?You are overstepping yourself. She is her own person and if she can make the decision about marriage she is old enough to make the decision on what swim suit she prefers.
If you keep on with not allowing her to choose for herself she might get tired of it and decide to replace you with a less jealous guy.My fiancee gets upset because I won't let her wear a two piece bathing suit at the pool and beach.?
I think that she should be able to wear whatever she'd like. You should feel proud that you have a woman that is confident enough to wear a two piece for some women that is a big deal. And also maybe feel a little good about the fact that she can turn heads. I think your real problem here is trusting your fiancee to be faithful to you and you obviously don't. I'd ask myself if this issue is worth your relationship. Personally I think your being a little childish. Let her be who she is!
Who are you to tell her what to wear. What are you going to tell her to do next? Why don't you stop controlling her or at least tryig to. If you think that a two piece bathing suit is immodest, then find a woman that shares your prudish views and marry her. You are in line to be her husband, not her daddy or her keeper.
Only she has the right to decide what is appropriate for her to wear. Not you!
You guys are obviously unequally yoked, she is who she is you have to either accept her as she is or move on to deeper waters. She is showing you even before marriage that she is not willing to adhere to your request or even settle for a compromise. This is recipe for disaster, it won't get better in a marriage, the girl likes to strut her stuff she is not your type of cover it up woman get the picture
Why not just make her wear a burqa like they do in Afghanistan?
ooooooooh, you're going to YELL at her. What's next- grounding her, taking the car keys, cutting up her credit cards?
';She needs to respect my decision and if I change it I will let her know and she needs to just stop bringing the issue up.';
You need to respect her individuality. What should you do when she brings it up again?
Get over it and stop acting like a b*tch-a.ss control freak.
You don't have the right to dictate what she wheres. If she chooses to wear a two piece on the beach then that his her choice and you should respect that. What age are you actually living in? Women got the vote a long long time ago darling. I do feel for your poor wife however eternally grateful now that my other half does not have your male chauvinistic views!
well you should really let her show off whats she got. and you shouldn't get up set when other men look at her you should be proud
that you have something for other men to droll over. at least she is
great to look at and not some one that when she walks by the person
says oh shi- so just be proud you have something that really looks great.
It is her decision what to wear, you do not own her and have no right to tell her what to wear. She is an adult and should be able to make up her own mind. Guys will look at her regardless of what she is wearing, what you going to do? Make her wear a suit of armour?
I don't get the point why people here are berating you for not being happy with her wanting to go indecent.
Its not control, people, its decency.
I know you would have different opinions if a man was putting on sth stupid and his woman wouldn't let him.
I would definately respect it if my wife stopped me putting on sth that clearly can be indecent.
I think you should stop trying to control her and let her use her own mind to dress herself, your insecurity not her problem
I never let a man tell me what to wear and honestly if he tried I wear it anyway and if he did not like it then as hard as that be i have to let him go
Well , guess we know who the boss is ! Isn't marriage supposed to be about compromise? Oh BTW... if your fiance is hot , men will look at her whether she wears a one piece or a two piece. You really should take it as a compliment and get over it. Or are you a control freak who needs to keep his lady subjugated?
What should you do? Seek counseling; it's not normal to be this controlling over someone else. This has nothing to do with what she wears; you have issues, possibly insecurity? And it appears that I'm not the only one who thinks so. For your own good, get help. And I'm not being mean, I'm being serious because this can lead to more abuse. This is the first part of abuse by the way.
Man women are use to being looked at naked. If she wants a sun tan then limit her with a knoweledge base that skin cancer is real and she should atleast wear a hat. Then she will look like someone else anyway ; and that is better than switching hands to do an oil change on the car.
Really? But if she wants him to stop looking at porn, he /doesn't/ get the chutzpah to say no, I'm an adult? Yet it's OK for her to parade around herself even if it bothers him?
Pretty self-centered double-standard.
Don't be so foolish!!!! It is just a bikini !!! Who cares if guys look at her anyway,you should be proud if they do.
And if you keep yelling at her for wearing a bikini, she will get sick of you really fast and leave you. Trust me.
Sorry, the only way she'll see the light is if you go find a skimpy 2 piece (thongs work well) and wear it yourself at the pool for several days. That should do the trick.
LOL
PS - Don't forget your cabana hat.
You don't have the right (and really should have the desire) to say what another adult can or cannot wear. You need to respect her as a separate human being apart from your own insecurities.
Well I can see you want to protect her, but as long as it isnt distasteful then I do not see a issue. But if she knows it bothers you and still does it then you have the issue of disrespect.
Just say ______(her name) I have spoken do not ask me again and I mean it. If you ask again I will punish you. Remember spare the rod spoil the brod.
its somthing normal in america and nobody wears a one piece anymore. its somthing you need to get over.
she should leave your controlling *** and go naked having sex with whomever she wants. You should get the ring back also.
Are you for real? Seriously?
Tell her if she asks again you will spank her!
you = couldn't buy a ';fiance'; in an amsterdam whorehouse with a dump truck full of $100's
It's a f*****g bathing suit, who the hell gives a ****? Everybody wears them. All you people and your silly drama. Than I suggest you wear a t shirt when you go to the beach or pool. I don't think she would want other woman staring at you either. Guys are gonna stare regardless if she is wearing a one or two piece. Guys stare even if the woman is fully dressed. You can't stop it and she doesn't have to liston to you. Actually she should leave your insecure, controlling @ss.
Do you beat your gf? Controlling a woman by telling her what to wear, having a sense of ownership (';she is my girl';), being jealous (not wanting ';other guys staring at her';), and dictating to her (';she needs to respect my decision and if I change it, I will let her know';) are all signs of an abuser. You already stated that you are ';going to yell at her next time.'; That puts you half a step away from backhanding her in the face.
Grow up and deal with your insecurities by seeing a counselor. Stop telling your gf what to do.
She should feel free to bring it up, and to wear what she pleases. It is not your responsibility to tell her what to wear or how to be seen in public. If you are dissatisfied with her choices, perhaps you should consider why you feel it is your place to manipulate her. Criticizing her and choosing to believe you are the only person whose opinion matters does not bode well for your relationship. Let her wear what she wants. If you find fault with it, date someone who doesn't mind you being their caretaker.
She needs to not marry you and move on to a guy who is not so controlling.
You are just not the kind of guy who will make a woman a good husband and probably not a very good father either.
Marriage is not just about what you want - but it's two people working together. You don't seem to be the type who can do that.
It would be better for her to dump you now than deal with a divorce later because eventually she will see what a mistake you are and she will leave you.
you're right, guys will stare, and lust, we all know that, why should she parade herself around like that, she should respect your opinion.
but yelling doesn't help, just tell her graffically how guys think. they don't simply ''admire''.
Have you tried hitting her?
You won't let her? LOL That is funny. How many thing does she not LET you do?You are overstepping yourself. She is her own person and if she can make the decision about marriage she is old enough to make the decision on what swim suit she prefers.
If you keep on with not allowing her to choose for herself she might get tired of it and decide to replace you with a less jealous guy.My fiancee gets upset because I won't let her wear a two piece bathing suit at the pool and beach.?
I think that she should be able to wear whatever she'd like. You should feel proud that you have a woman that is confident enough to wear a two piece for some women that is a big deal. And also maybe feel a little good about the fact that she can turn heads. I think your real problem here is trusting your fiancee to be faithful to you and you obviously don't. I'd ask myself if this issue is worth your relationship. Personally I think your being a little childish. Let her be who she is!
Who are you to tell her what to wear. What are you going to tell her to do next? Why don't you stop controlling her or at least tryig to. If you think that a two piece bathing suit is immodest, then find a woman that shares your prudish views and marry her. You are in line to be her husband, not her daddy or her keeper.
Only she has the right to decide what is appropriate for her to wear. Not you!
You guys are obviously unequally yoked, she is who she is you have to either accept her as she is or move on to deeper waters. She is showing you even before marriage that she is not willing to adhere to your request or even settle for a compromise. This is recipe for disaster, it won't get better in a marriage, the girl likes to strut her stuff she is not your type of cover it up woman get the picture
Why not just make her wear a burqa like they do in Afghanistan?
ooooooooh, you're going to YELL at her. What's next- grounding her, taking the car keys, cutting up her credit cards?
';She needs to respect my decision and if I change it I will let her know and she needs to just stop bringing the issue up.';
You need to respect her individuality. What should you do when she brings it up again?
Get over it and stop acting like a b*tch-a.ss control freak.
You don't have the right to dictate what she wheres. If she chooses to wear a two piece on the beach then that his her choice and you should respect that. What age are you actually living in? Women got the vote a long long time ago darling. I do feel for your poor wife however eternally grateful now that my other half does not have your male chauvinistic views!
well you should really let her show off whats she got. and you shouldn't get up set when other men look at her you should be proud
that you have something for other men to droll over. at least she is
great to look at and not some one that when she walks by the person
says oh shi- so just be proud you have something that really looks great.
It is her decision what to wear, you do not own her and have no right to tell her what to wear. She is an adult and should be able to make up her own mind. Guys will look at her regardless of what she is wearing, what you going to do? Make her wear a suit of armour?
I don't get the point why people here are berating you for not being happy with her wanting to go indecent.
Its not control, people, its decency.
I know you would have different opinions if a man was putting on sth stupid and his woman wouldn't let him.
I would definately respect it if my wife stopped me putting on sth that clearly can be indecent.
I think you should stop trying to control her and let her use her own mind to dress herself, your insecurity not her problem
I never let a man tell me what to wear and honestly if he tried I wear it anyway and if he did not like it then as hard as that be i have to let him go
Well , guess we know who the boss is ! Isn't marriage supposed to be about compromise? Oh BTW... if your fiance is hot , men will look at her whether she wears a one piece or a two piece. You really should take it as a compliment and get over it. Or are you a control freak who needs to keep his lady subjugated?
What should you do? Seek counseling; it's not normal to be this controlling over someone else. This has nothing to do with what she wears; you have issues, possibly insecurity? And it appears that I'm not the only one who thinks so. For your own good, get help. And I'm not being mean, I'm being serious because this can lead to more abuse. This is the first part of abuse by the way.
Man women are use to being looked at naked. If she wants a sun tan then limit her with a knoweledge base that skin cancer is real and she should atleast wear a hat. Then she will look like someone else anyway ; and that is better than switching hands to do an oil change on the car.
Really? But if she wants him to stop looking at porn, he /doesn't/ get the chutzpah to say no, I'm an adult? Yet it's OK for her to parade around herself even if it bothers him?
Pretty self-centered double-standard.
Don't be so foolish!!!! It is just a bikini !!! Who cares if guys look at her anyway,you should be proud if they do.
And if you keep yelling at her for wearing a bikini, she will get sick of you really fast and leave you. Trust me.
Sorry, the only way she'll see the light is if you go find a skimpy 2 piece (thongs work well) and wear it yourself at the pool for several days. That should do the trick.
LOL
PS - Don't forget your cabana hat.
You don't have the right (and really should have the desire) to say what another adult can or cannot wear. You need to respect her as a separate human being apart from your own insecurities.
Well I can see you want to protect her, but as long as it isnt distasteful then I do not see a issue. But if she knows it bothers you and still does it then you have the issue of disrespect.
Just say ______(her name) I have spoken do not ask me again and I mean it. If you ask again I will punish you. Remember spare the rod spoil the brod.
its somthing normal in america and nobody wears a one piece anymore. its somthing you need to get over.
she should leave your controlling *** and go naked having sex with whomever she wants. You should get the ring back also.
Are you for real? Seriously?
Tell her if she asks again you will spank her!
you = couldn't buy a ';fiance'; in an amsterdam whorehouse with a dump truck full of $100's
It's a f*****g bathing suit, who the hell gives a ****? Everybody wears them. All you people and your silly drama. Than I suggest you wear a t shirt when you go to the beach or pool. I don't think she would want other woman staring at you either. Guys are gonna stare regardless if she is wearing a one or two piece. Guys stare even if the woman is fully dressed. You can't stop it and she doesn't have to liston to you. Actually she should leave your insecure, controlling @ss.
Do you beat your gf? Controlling a woman by telling her what to wear, having a sense of ownership (';she is my girl';), being jealous (not wanting ';other guys staring at her';), and dictating to her (';she needs to respect my decision and if I change it, I will let her know';) are all signs of an abuser. You already stated that you are ';going to yell at her next time.'; That puts you half a step away from backhanding her in the face.
Grow up and deal with your insecurities by seeing a counselor. Stop telling your gf what to do.
She should feel free to bring it up, and to wear what she pleases. It is not your responsibility to tell her what to wear or how to be seen in public. If you are dissatisfied with her choices, perhaps you should consider why you feel it is your place to manipulate her. Criticizing her and choosing to believe you are the only person whose opinion matters does not bode well for your relationship. Let her wear what she wants. If you find fault with it, date someone who doesn't mind you being their caretaker.
She needs to not marry you and move on to a guy who is not so controlling.
You are just not the kind of guy who will make a woman a good husband and probably not a very good father either.
Marriage is not just about what you want - but it's two people working together. You don't seem to be the type who can do that.
It would be better for her to dump you now than deal with a divorce later because eventually she will see what a mistake you are and she will leave you.
you're right, guys will stare, and lust, we all know that, why should she parade herself around like that, she should respect your opinion.
but yelling doesn't help, just tell her graffically how guys think. they don't simply ''admire''.
Have you tried hitting her?
Since I'll be hitting the beach a lot this summer, should I get a one piece or two piece bathing suit?
I want to look good, but I want to run around and be active too.Since I'll be hitting the beach a lot this summer, should I get a one piece or two piece bathing suit?
I think a two piece would be drop dead sexy. There's nothing like seeing a guy with his hairy chest encased in two tiny triangles of spandex, and his junk shoved into a thong running down the beach ala Pamela Anderson in Baywatch.
It's just the cat's pajamas.Since I'll be hitting the beach a lot this summer, should I get a one piece or two piece bathing suit?
Get the Banana Hammock over the shoulder thong model that Borat wore in the movie. Kinda like a wrestlers outfit made of yellow dental floss.
If you want it, I can make the call, I have a direct line to Kazakhstan.
painted on laytex
one piece..
You need to talk to Spitchus. I'm pretty sure she could hook you up with a Speedo made out of candy necklaces.
Just go with a thong--you'll be glad you did.
I think a two piece would be drop dead sexy. There's nothing like seeing a guy with his hairy chest encased in two tiny triangles of spandex, and his junk shoved into a thong running down the beach ala Pamela Anderson in Baywatch.
It's just the cat's pajamas.Since I'll be hitting the beach a lot this summer, should I get a one piece or two piece bathing suit?
Get the Banana Hammock over the shoulder thong model that Borat wore in the movie. Kinda like a wrestlers outfit made of yellow dental floss.
If you want it, I can make the call, I have a direct line to Kazakhstan.
painted on laytex
one piece..
You need to talk to Spitchus. I'm pretty sure she could hook you up with a Speedo made out of candy necklaces.
Just go with a thong--you'll be glad you did.
I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Ok so this happend last summer but its so embbarrssing i just cant get it off my mind since summer is starting again.Last summer i was at the beach with my friend Sam,Cody,Nathan(nate the great haha),kylie,and Alex (hate the betch),and these girls were there and they were trying to talk to our guys and it was getting really annoyying so we like took the guys away from them and they got pissed and they had there guy friends there and there guy friends came over to talk to us and sam said my name and i turned around and the other guy pulled the string to my bathing suit off and of course ALL of my guy friends could probley see everything.(and those annoying girls were laughing there butts off) but my hair was pretty long but idk if it covered anything it was so embarrsing.EVER SINCE THAT DAY I HAVE NEVER GONE SWIMMING OR TO THE BEACH WITH MY GUY FRIENDS HOW DO I GET OVER THE EMBARRESSMENT!!!???I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Forget about it,
that was a Year ago they probably forgot,
and your there friend aren't you?
they wouldn't care.
if they were your they wouldn't say anything,
okay,
forget it.I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
They wont think twice about it so dont worry they wont remember it...
who cares what they see. they some day probaly would of saw you any way
lol..
get over it;
they're guys they like seeing these thingss..
don't worry about it just pretened like it never happend:)
Forget about it,
that was a Year ago they probably forgot,
and your there friend aren't you?
they wouldn't care.
if they were your they wouldn't say anything,
okay,
forget it.I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
They wont think twice about it so dont worry they wont remember it...
who cares what they see. they some day probaly would of saw you any way
lol..
get over it;
they're guys they like seeing these thingss..
don't worry about it just pretened like it never happend:)
I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Ok so this happend last summer but its so embbarrssing i just cant get it off my mind since summer is starting again.Last summer i was at the beach with my friend Sam,Cody,Nathan(nate the great haha),kylie,and Alex (hate the betch),and these girls were there and they were trying to talk to our guys and it was getting really annoyying so we like took the guys away from them and they got pissed and they had there guy friends there and there guy friends came over to talk to us and sam said my name and i turned around and the other guy pulled the string to my bathing suit off and of course ALL of my guy friends could probley see everything.(and those annoying girls were laughing there butts off) but my hair was pretty long but idk if it covered anything it was so embarrsing.EVER SINCE THAT DAY I HAVE NEVER GONE SWIMMING OR TO THE BEACH WITH MY GUY FRIENDS HOW DO I GET OVER THE EMBARRESSMENT!!!???I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
If they're really your friends they won't care.
But they'll probably still make fun of you in a playful manner a little bit.
The best thing to do is to just laugh it off.
=)I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Next time, tell them if they touch you or try to pull down your swim suit, that it will not be taken as a joke and you WILL file a complaint with the police. They could probably be hit with a few charges, but I am not to sure as to which ones. It could be battery or more.
Embrace it. Nothing funny at all about it to any of the guys if they saw anything or not and if not I'am sure they wish they did. If they did I'am sure you they like you even more.
Turnip
what are you 12, if your attractive, then no1 would care,eye creams
If they're really your friends they won't care.
But they'll probably still make fun of you in a playful manner a little bit.
The best thing to do is to just laugh it off.
=)I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Next time, tell them if they touch you or try to pull down your swim suit, that it will not be taken as a joke and you WILL file a complaint with the police. They could probably be hit with a few charges, but I am not to sure as to which ones. It could be battery or more.
Embrace it. Nothing funny at all about it to any of the guys if they saw anything or not and if not I'am sure they wish they did. If they did I'am sure you they like you even more.
Turnip
what are you 12, if your attractive, then no1 would care,
I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Ok so this happend last summer but its so embbarrssing i just cant get it off my mind since summer is starting again.Last summer i was at the beach with my friend Sam,Cody,Nathan(nate the great haha),kylie,and Alex (hate the betch),and these girls were there and they were trying to talk to our guys and it was getting really annoyying so we like took the guys away from them and they got pissed and they had there guy friends there and there guy friends came over to talk to us and sam said my name and i turned around and the other guy pulled the string to my bathing suit off and of course ALL of my guy friends could probley see everything.(and those annoying girls were laughing there butts off) but my hair was pretty long but idk if it covered anything it was so embarrsing.EVER SINCE THAT DAY I HAVE NEVER GONE SWIMMING OR TO THE BEACH WITH MY GUY FRIENDS HOW DO I GET OVER THE EMBARRESSMENT!!!???I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
well it seems u dont like the people, so just think that they were jealous, like there bodies aren't good, urs is and u got to show off, but idk, thats what id do in something like thisI got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Go to the beach
its the only wayyyy
i swear you don't want to be 50 years old and havn't gone to the beach in like 30 years
It's not that bad, just go to the beach and look super hot in your bathing suit! :]
I actually agree with 'babeheart'.
that is assault.call the cops.that would be the last time they try that.
hahahhahaha thats funny! but uhm maybe your guy friends liked it lol so they want to go with you again but be prepared
Honey, they're just breasts...every chick has them No issue.
This year wear a top that doesn't have string ties, or knot them. Tons of chicks show their t*ts on purpose, nothing to be ashamed of at all. Same thing guys have, just with more fat in them, and mammary glands for milk.
You'll be fine. Be proud of your body...and don't let people who act like children ruin your Summer. That event is ancient history anyway. If anyone mentions it this year, laugh it off and let it go.
well it seems u dont like the people, so just think that they were jealous, like there bodies aren't good, urs is and u got to show off, but idk, thats what id do in something like thisI got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Go to the beach
its the only wayyyy
i swear you don't want to be 50 years old and havn't gone to the beach in like 30 years
It's not that bad, just go to the beach and look super hot in your bathing suit! :]
I actually agree with 'babeheart'.
that is assault.call the cops.that would be the last time they try that.
hahahhahaha thats funny! but uhm maybe your guy friends liked it lol so they want to go with you again but be prepared
Honey, they're just breasts...every chick has them No issue.
This year wear a top that doesn't have string ties, or knot them. Tons of chicks show their t*ts on purpose, nothing to be ashamed of at all. Same thing guys have, just with more fat in them, and mammary glands for milk.
You'll be fine. Be proud of your body...and don't let people who act like children ruin your Summer. That event is ancient history anyway. If anyone mentions it this year, laugh it off and let it go.
I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Ok so this happend last summer but its so embbarrssing i just cant get it off my mind since summer is starting again.Last summer i was at the beach with my friend Sam,Cody,Nathan(nate the great haha),kylie,and Alex (hate the betch),and these girls were there and they were trying to talk to our guys and it was getting really annoyying so we like took the guys away from them and they got pissed and they had there guy friends there and there guy friends came over to talk to us and sam said my name and i turned around and the other guy pulled the string to my bathing suit off and of course ALL of my guy friends could probley see everything.(and those annoying girls were laughing there butts off) but my hair was pretty long but idk if it covered anything it was so embarrsing.EVER SINCE THAT DAY I HAVE NEVER GONE SWIMMING OR TO THE BEACH WITH MY GUY FRIENDS HOW DO I GET OVER THE EMBARRESSMENT!!!???I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
To get over your embarassment:
Go buy a cute new swimsuit, put on your best smile and strut your stuff.
Don't live in the past. Get over it.
To get over your embarassment:
Go buy a cute new swimsuit, put on your best smile and strut your stuff.
Don't live in the past. Get over it.
I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Ok so this happend last summer but its so embbarrssing i just cant get it off my mind since summer is starting again.Last summer i was at the beach with my friend Sam,Cody,Nathan(nate the great haha),kylie,and Alex (hate the betch),and these girls were there and they were trying to talk to our guys and it was getting really annoyying so we like took the guys away from them and they got pissed and they had there guy friends there and there guy friends came over to talk to us and sam said my name and i turned around and the other guy pulled the string to my bathing suit off and of course ALL of my guy friends could probley see everything.(and those annoying girls were laughing there butts off) but my hair was pretty long but idk if it covered anything it was so embarrsing.EVER SINCE THAT DAY I HAVE NEVER GONE SWIMMING OR TO THE BEACH WITH MY GUY FRIENDS HOW DO I GET OVER THE EMBARRESSMENT!!!???I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Over time it will become more and more vague in your memory and 10 years from now you'll look back and laugh.
Next time you go to the beach wear a one-piece =)I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Some friends. I doubt that anyone remembers but even if they do, just laugh along with them. You've got to learn to laugh at yourself because life is going to throw all kinds of things like this at you! Seriously, if anyone says anything, just laugh and say, ';yea that was too funny!'; Then forget it and go on. They will forget too if you don't make a big deal out of it! It's actually not that big of a deal anyway..
oh god thats mean of them! hmm just try not to do anything with those people again, just hang with your good friends who u know woulnt ever do something like that to you and u wont have to worry.
be confident
act like it is no probllem
i doubt they still worry about it
(i bet they secretly liked it)
its okey
dont worry yourself that much
:)
just be confident.
i had my top get messed up once, it was like it for a couple of minutes before my friend told me.....luckily we were around strangers.
you asked this question before,
why r u asking this again?
Ok so this happend last summer but its so embbarrssing i just cant get it off my mind since summer is starting again.Last summer i was at the beach with my friend Sam,Cody,Nathan(nate the great haha),kylie,and Alex (hate the betch),and these girls were there and they were trying to talk to our guys and it was getting really annoyying so we like took the guys away from them and they got pissed and they had there guy friends there and there guy friends came over to talk to us and sam said my name and i turned around and the other guy pulled the string to my bathing suit off and of course ALL of my guy friends could probley see everything.(and those annoying girls were laughing there butts off) but my hair was pretty long but idk if it covered anything it was so embarrsing.EVER SINCE THAT DAY I HAVE NEVER GONE SWIMMING OR TO THE BEACH WITH MY GUY FRIENDS HOW DO I GET OVER THE EMBARRESSMENT!!!???I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Over time it will become more and more vague in your memory and 10 years from now you'll look back and laugh.
Next time you go to the beach wear a one-piece =)I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Some friends. I doubt that anyone remembers but even if they do, just laugh along with them. You've got to learn to laugh at yourself because life is going to throw all kinds of things like this at you! Seriously, if anyone says anything, just laugh and say, ';yea that was too funny!'; Then forget it and go on. They will forget too if you don't make a big deal out of it! It's actually not that big of a deal anyway..
oh god thats mean of them! hmm just try not to do anything with those people again, just hang with your good friends who u know woulnt ever do something like that to you and u wont have to worry.
be confident
act like it is no probllem
i doubt they still worry about it
(i bet they secretly liked it)
its okey
dont worry yourself that much
:)
just be confident.
i had my top get messed up once, it was like it for a couple of minutes before my friend told me.....luckily we were around strangers.
you asked this question before,
why r u asking this again?
I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Ok so this happend last summer but its so embbarrssing i just cant get it off my mind since summer is starting again.Last summer i was at the beach with my friend Sam,Cody,Nathan(nate the great haha),kylie,and Alex (hate the betch),and these girls were there and they were trying to talk to our guys and it was getting really annoyying so we like took the guys away from them and they got pissed and they had there guy friends there and there guy friends came over to talk to us and sam said my name and i turned around and the other guy pulled the string to my bathing suit off and of course ALL of my guy friends could probley see everything.(and those annoying girls were laughing there butts off) but my hair was pretty long but idk if it covered anything it was so embarrsing.EVER SINCE THAT DAY I HAVE NEVER GONE SWIMMING OR TO THE BEACH WITH MY GUY FRIENDS HOW DO I GET OVER THE EMBARRESSMENT!!!???I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Don't know if this is a question or a comment but they probably enjoyed themselves haI got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
sounds like you need better friends.
Lifes to short to hold back because of that hun. Just go and have a good time dont even think about it for real its silly honestly. Wear a one piece suite with no ties!!
no exact way really
jus avoid those guys if u feel so embarrased about it
staple ya bathing suit on (dont do that, chances are its gonna be painful) and have fun with the girls u went with before. if they're not azzholes, they wont tease u for it, if not go with some other friends. but have fun all in all
The best way to get over any embarrassment is to turn it into a joke. As soon as someone brings up the subject say something like, ';Bet you guys got a good look last year,'; and then just laugh it off. Trust me, if you are not a part of the joke, all that will happen is the laughter will consume you and you will just be miserable.
all i can say is double knot your swimmers from no on lol, and u'll be fine, just go wid em and if they bring it up just be like 'yeah that was so embarrasing' and laugh it off
aww hunn im soo soryy that must have suked
i wooda punched those little beezy's in the face!!
but i agree with....sorry i forgot who said it haha,
but the person who said to make a joke out of it
i think thats the best way to go
youll get over it by going swimming
Don't know if this is a question or a comment but they probably enjoyed themselves haI got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
sounds like you need better friends.
Lifes to short to hold back because of that hun. Just go and have a good time dont even think about it for real its silly honestly. Wear a one piece suite with no ties!!
no exact way really
jus avoid those guys if u feel so embarrased about it
staple ya bathing suit on (dont do that, chances are its gonna be painful) and have fun with the girls u went with before. if they're not azzholes, they wont tease u for it, if not go with some other friends. but have fun all in all
The best way to get over any embarrassment is to turn it into a joke. As soon as someone brings up the subject say something like, ';Bet you guys got a good look last year,'; and then just laugh it off. Trust me, if you are not a part of the joke, all that will happen is the laughter will consume you and you will just be miserable.
all i can say is double knot your swimmers from no on lol, and u'll be fine, just go wid em and if they bring it up just be like 'yeah that was so embarrasing' and laugh it off
aww hunn im soo soryy that must have suked
i wooda punched those little beezy's in the face!!
but i agree with....sorry i forgot who said it haha,
but the person who said to make a joke out of it
i think thats the best way to go
youll get over it by going swimming
I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
Ok so this happend last summer but its so embbarrssing i just cant get it off my mind since summer is starting again.Last summer i was at the beach with my friend Sam,Cody,Nathan(nate the great haha),kylie,and Alex (hate the betch),and these girls were there and they were trying to talk to our guys and it was getting really annoyying so we like took the guys away from them and they got pissed and they had there guy friends there and there guy friends came over to talk to us and sam said my name and i turned around and the other guy pulled the string to my bathing suit off and of course ALL of my guy friends could probley see everything.(and those annoying girls were laughing there butts off) but my hair was pretty long but idk if it covered anything it was so embarrsing.EVER SINCE THAT DAY I HAVE NEVER GONE SWIMMING OR TO THE BEACH WITH MY GUY FRIENDS HOW DO I GET OVER THE EMBARRESSMENT!!!???I got my bathing suit pulled off at the beach last summer in front of my guy friends!!!!!!!?
I would just let it go and if someone brings it up just laugh with them.
it's only life (:
I would just let it go and if someone brings it up just laugh with them.
it's only life (:
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edit: o sorry there not on the website anymore....they have them in stores tho=]Can you make me a beach style outfit - not a bathing suit, but an oufit that someone would wear by the beach?
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The outfit I wear at the beach is the one I was born in
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edit: o sorry there not on the website anymore....they have them in stores tho=]Can you make me a beach style outfit - not a bathing suit, but an oufit that someone would wear by the beach?
only thing I wear to a beach is me no swimsuit
just naked and free
try:
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well you want some cute shorts!:
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st鈥?/a>
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st鈥?/a>
and a cute shirt:
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st鈥?/a>
hope you like :)
The outfit I wear at the beach is the one I was born in
okay- hollister is the one for you.
main color: yellow
stores:claires, hollister
tanks/knits:
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st鈥?/a>
the yellow one and it goes great with this:
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st鈥?/a>
the very last it's awesome!
heres some accsesories to go with:
http://www.claires.com/category.asp?rcid鈥?/a>
the one below the first-pick the yellow set of earrings!!! it's so hip.
http://www.claires.com/category.asp?rcid鈥?/a>
the last one! it's so cute!
http://www.claires.com/category.asp?rcid鈥?/a>
second to last- black goes with anything!
http://www.claires.com/category.asp?rcid鈥?/a>
last one is beeeyouuteeefulll!
hope i helped out =)
these pants
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st鈥?/a>
with this shirt
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st鈥?/a>
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these flip-flops
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st鈥?/a>
These are some ideas. I hope you like them:D http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/app#foo
answer my question please: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Are there any good beaches for nude bathing near larisa greece?
There aren't any near Larisa.
Here are some websites that will tell you where you can find all the good beaches for nude bathing.
1. Captain Barefoot's Naturist Guide to the Greek islands
http://www.barefoot.info/greekgde.html
2. Top 5 Nude Beaches of Greece
http://www.greecelogue.com/top-5-nude-be…
Here are some websites that will tell you where you can find all the good beaches for nude bathing.
1. Captain Barefoot's Naturist Guide to the Greek islands
http://www.barefoot.info/greekgde.html
2. Top 5 Nude Beaches of Greece
http://www.greecelogue.com/top-5-nude-be…
What exactly are women self conscious of when they put on a bathing suit (especially, at the beach)?
It seems to me that many women have this dread or fear of going to the beach or just being in a bathing suit in general. Fine, I understand that they may have a fear or dread of being in a bathing suit but of what?
What exactly is it about being in a bathing suit that women (not all, just quite a few) that brings dread, stress, nervousness into the whole equation?
Now, I can speculate that it probably has something to do with low self esteem and that they’re trying to avoid a horrible situation where everyone either stares at her, points and laughs at her, or simply ignore her (because she think she looks like a train wreck) ---- whether any of that is true or not.
But speculation isn’t as good, as hearing it from qualified people
So that’s why I’m asking you instead – what exactly is it about being in a bathing suit (at the beach especially) that causes fear, dread, stress etc?
And what’s going through their minds when this is actually happening… like…. “omg, I am too fat for this….I won’t look good in this…” – that sorta thing (if it can be answered)
Thanks in advance
What exactly are women self conscious of when they put on a bathing suit (especially, at the beach)?
';Oh my, that girl is so skinny. I'm not as skinny as her. Now I won't look good.';
Replace ';skinny'; with another adjective and it'll still work out.What exactly are women self conscious of when they put on a bathing suit (especially, at the beach)?
easy, i'm a pretty confident person in normal clothes, but you would never get me to go to the beach for the simple fact that when i'm wearing normal clothes i can hide anything that i don't like. in a bathing suit (i'm so used to calling them togs!) you can't hide much, unless you want to look like an idiot with a sun shirt and a sarong or shorts... i know for alot of my friends its the same
Because you're showing parts of yourself that usually don't get shown so it feels different and awkward for some girls I guess. Probably like a goth having to dress preppy for a day, just feeling out of place. Worrying about a roll on the stomach, cellulite on the butt/thighs...stuff that normally you don't have to worry about.
I guess. I personally love wearing bikinis though. Haha if I could I would wear them everywhere :P
well i just know that my body isnt considered hot. it just makes me jealous of the girls that guys are drooling over and me feel like im not good enough. i mean i have really small boobs which look bad in most bikini tops and on top of that i think my waist isnt narrow enough and my stomach not flat enough. my @ss isnt big enough either. theres are my personal concerns about wearing a bikini.
well im bot sure what its like for other people but for me i suppse its because i am always comparing myself to other people (but its balanced out, sometimes im proud of how i look) and yeah you think everyones looking at you, but often there just to busy worrying about themselves.
basically what you said above.
and also there is no clothing to easily disguise your not so good features. idno. its a bit like being naked. haha
there are a number of reason
1. embarrassed cos it shows so much
2. they think they are too fat
3.or too thin
4. embarrassed about cellulite
5. if they didnt shave their legs
6. they feel naked
7. being paranoid somethings gonna pop out
and so on... hope this helps
Jelly rolls, sitting in a one suit while the girl next to you is stunning in a Slutty bikini.
Yeah..........
Everything, a bikini exposes all of the girls vulnerable spots and insecurities. Even if her tummy isnt that big, we imagine its 10x more bigger exposed, and no one wants the stomach or mid section to hang over the bottoms of the suit! Its just exposing so much and thats enough to make almost any girl squeemish an insecure, even if we look great. Im pregnant this summer and i feel soooo much more comfortable in a bathing suit now, lol maybe its because i know im suppose to have a big belly and swollen ankles! lol
Isn't it obvious!? Have you spent no time at all with any women!?
Women get stressed about wearing very few clothes (eg a bathing suit) in a public place, like a beach, because ALL women are self concious about one or more areas of their body, they feel inferior to people who they think look better to them, they want to look good infront of people, whether they know them or not. Women have an enormous pressure to look good and have a body like a model and wearing a bikini at the beach is the worst because there's nothing to hide behind. I'ts very brutal really!
Personally my hang ups are: Having a bit of a belly, boobs too big and I'm VERY pale.
Haha, there are a lot of things I dread, but thats mainly because I do not have much self confidence in the way I look. Growing up, being told by many people that my sisters were prettier than me does not help that. Still today, I have guys saying that my younger sister is so much ';hotter'; and I am. My lack of self confidence stems from guys. I don't like the way my body looks, and that's that. I am 5 foot 6 inches, 160 pounds, and have some good muscle from sports, but that doesn't make the past ridicule go away. So for me, what's going through my mind is past ridicule. Makes it very hard to feel like I look good in anything, no matter what anyone says.
What exactly is it about being in a bathing suit that women (not all, just quite a few) that brings dread, stress, nervousness into the whole equation?
Now, I can speculate that it probably has something to do with low self esteem and that they’re trying to avoid a horrible situation where everyone either stares at her, points and laughs at her, or simply ignore her (because she think she looks like a train wreck) ---- whether any of that is true or not.
But speculation isn’t as good, as hearing it from qualified people
So that’s why I’m asking you instead – what exactly is it about being in a bathing suit (at the beach especially) that causes fear, dread, stress etc?
And what’s going through their minds when this is actually happening… like…. “omg, I am too fat for this….I won’t look good in this…” – that sorta thing (if it can be answered)
Thanks in advance
What exactly are women self conscious of when they put on a bathing suit (especially, at the beach)?
';Oh my, that girl is so skinny. I'm not as skinny as her. Now I won't look good.';
Replace ';skinny'; with another adjective and it'll still work out.What exactly are women self conscious of when they put on a bathing suit (especially, at the beach)?
easy, i'm a pretty confident person in normal clothes, but you would never get me to go to the beach for the simple fact that when i'm wearing normal clothes i can hide anything that i don't like. in a bathing suit (i'm so used to calling them togs!) you can't hide much, unless you want to look like an idiot with a sun shirt and a sarong or shorts... i know for alot of my friends its the same
Because you're showing parts of yourself that usually don't get shown so it feels different and awkward for some girls I guess. Probably like a goth having to dress preppy for a day, just feeling out of place. Worrying about a roll on the stomach, cellulite on the butt/thighs...stuff that normally you don't have to worry about.
I guess. I personally love wearing bikinis though. Haha if I could I would wear them everywhere :P
well i just know that my body isnt considered hot. it just makes me jealous of the girls that guys are drooling over and me feel like im not good enough. i mean i have really small boobs which look bad in most bikini tops and on top of that i think my waist isnt narrow enough and my stomach not flat enough. my @ss isnt big enough either. theres are my personal concerns about wearing a bikini.
well im bot sure what its like for other people but for me i suppse its because i am always comparing myself to other people (but its balanced out, sometimes im proud of how i look) and yeah you think everyones looking at you, but often there just to busy worrying about themselves.
basically what you said above.
and also there is no clothing to easily disguise your not so good features. idno. its a bit like being naked. haha
there are a number of reason
1. embarrassed cos it shows so much
2. they think they are too fat
3.or too thin
4. embarrassed about cellulite
5. if they didnt shave their legs
6. they feel naked
7. being paranoid somethings gonna pop out
and so on... hope this helps
Jelly rolls, sitting in a one suit while the girl next to you is stunning in a Slutty bikini.
Yeah..........
Everything, a bikini exposes all of the girls vulnerable spots and insecurities. Even if her tummy isnt that big, we imagine its 10x more bigger exposed, and no one wants the stomach or mid section to hang over the bottoms of the suit! Its just exposing so much and thats enough to make almost any girl squeemish an insecure, even if we look great. Im pregnant this summer and i feel soooo much more comfortable in a bathing suit now, lol maybe its because i know im suppose to have a big belly and swollen ankles! lol
Isn't it obvious!? Have you spent no time at all with any women!?
Women get stressed about wearing very few clothes (eg a bathing suit) in a public place, like a beach, because ALL women are self concious about one or more areas of their body, they feel inferior to people who they think look better to them, they want to look good infront of people, whether they know them or not. Women have an enormous pressure to look good and have a body like a model and wearing a bikini at the beach is the worst because there's nothing to hide behind. I'ts very brutal really!
Personally my hang ups are: Having a bit of a belly, boobs too big and I'm VERY pale.
Haha, there are a lot of things I dread, but thats mainly because I do not have much self confidence in the way I look. Growing up, being told by many people that my sisters were prettier than me does not help that. Still today, I have guys saying that my younger sister is so much ';hotter'; and I am. My lack of self confidence stems from guys. I don't like the way my body looks, and that's that. I am 5 foot 6 inches, 160 pounds, and have some good muscle from sports, but that doesn't make the past ridicule go away. So for me, what's going through my mind is past ridicule. Makes it very hard to feel like I look good in anything, no matter what anyone says.
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